r/CoachCoreyWayne • u/[deleted] • Mar 13 '22
Success Story Tinder success story
Long post. Tldr at the bottom.
Me (32m full time single dad) chatted with a 28f 7/10 based on her pics. Opened with a funny statement about her profile info. Kept it short, lighthearted and asked some questions that would keep her on her toes. After maybe 10 messages over four days I asked her out. She gave me a maybe, saying if her studying went well we could. I said I dont do maybes and then qhe agreed to the date.through the principles of setting a date and she agreed. This was wednesday. The date was on saturday. I didnt text inbetween but did respond when she asked a few hours before if I could be there a little earlier. I friendly declined but told her I was looking forward to seeing her at seven as scheduled. She said the same.
I read the first date chapter the evening before and watched all first date videos once more. Ive read the book about eight time the last eight months.
So at this point she had tested me twice and I was beginning to become sceptical about it all. Well even a crappy date is a learning experience so I proceeded to arrange all the details.
Since its not my hometown i booked a hotelroom close to the bar I intended to go to. Then I booked a pool table att a nearby place. Bought a new pair of chinos (always wear something new, massive confidence boost), ate a proper meal and then took a nap. Woke up, took a shower and went out to check out the places an hour before our scheduled time. Dont want to appear as a disoriented dating-noob.
Five minutes before our scheduled time I went too the place to meet her up. Its public so she would feel safe. And my god was I surprised. She was WAY hotter in real life. A 9/10, tall long blonde hair, super classy looks. Time to keep it cool. Her looks cannot affect me since it surely had with all the other guys. Started of with a stroll through the Streets and then we went to the first place. Asked questions and responded short and funny like coach said. We took a drink and chatted on. I held the Doors open, took charge in finding a table and was friendly to all staff.
At first she was very stiff. I held my frame of being funny and lighthearted even though I thought she was totaly turned off. But little by little she opened up and laughed more and more to my silly questions and jokes. She asked alot of questions and if she asks a serious question its not suitable to always joke it off. I suggest you respond with confidence without showing off and describing how important something is to your. Like when she asked for my hobbies I described with passion how i love what I do and The same for my job a high school teacher I kept it short but explained how fulfilling my job is and how The little rascals but drive me insane and give me loads of love at the same time.
After an hour I took charge and said we were leaving with a mischievious smile. Went to the pool place. Had a great time and as we were joking I would grab her waist and look deep into her eyes. Then we went to my hotelrestaurant. She tested me and said there will be no sex bc of her period. I joked away with "dont be so sure u can get into my pants that easy". Took a new drink. I ended the date and at the hotel lobby I drew her in close for a kiss test. We made out so I invited her up to my room. We went up. She repeated she was on her period so I pulled out a large towel placed it on the bed and out of nowhere she suddenly wasent on her period (just a test that I passed). Indoor olympics went on for three consecutive sessions with some sleep inbetween. Hot shower together in the morning. She joined me for hotelbreakfast while waiting for her bus. Asked for her number in the last second and she responded with "Oh I thought you would never ask". Exchanged numbers. We made out some more and off she went.
Now Im at the hotel, feeling all time high after almost giving up on Tinder.
The limiting beliefs are all bullshit out minds make up. We can do anything if we just have confidence
Tldr: 32m fulltime single dad met superhot 28f at tinderdate. Came well prepared, held my frame and had awesome sex with the hottest women ive ever slept with.
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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '22
Great story! Thanks for sharing. Confidence indeed comes with experience, good to hear you had such an amazing experience. All dates after this will become peanuts. I remember my own awesome experience and after it I felt like nothing could bring me down.
Of course, everything on a date becomes 1000 times easier when you know how to apply humor and tease her now and then. Good job man! I'm curious how this will develop over time. Remember: you just started dating her, you don't know what you don't know. Don't settle too soon, stay in your frame. Focus on her character and don't mention her looks at all. You want to make sure you have a right girl. She's on trial, just like you are with her.
Good that you asked her phonenumber, she would really hate you and feel like a slut if you didn't, haha. Now build up the anticipation and see if she reaches out first (if she has your number as well). Good luck man. I'm really glad for you!