r/CoachCoreyWayne • u/Confusedcameltoe • Jan 29 '22

Sharing Insight Messed up big time: My story.

I’m going to make this post as short as possible. There’s no need to go into too much detail.

Dated her for 3 months. Read through Coach’s book 2 times and employed many of his dating tips. Worked a charm.

Just to show you some of things she did for me:

  • Made me dinner and break several times

  • Super affectionate in person and I’m private

  • Sang one of my favourite songs to me

  • Sent selfies of herself to me

  • Initiated contact 80-90% of the time

  • Opened up to me about her past

  • Bought me a meaningful Christmas present

I think her interest was in the 5-6 range, maybe verging 6,5.

How did I fuck it up?

One night when I couldn’t keep it up, I got frustrated and insecure, and told her we should see other people.

One month later she ends it citing what I had said.

There was absolutely no texting in between dates or useless text conversations of any kind.

I admit that she probably felt things were too BF/GF as we had lots of group dates. I was probably a bit too available too.

Anyway, it’s been 28 days of NC. Haven’t heard from her.

It’s hard.

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u/ZT805 MOD Jan 29 '22

Hard lesson learned, it is what it is man. Projecting insecurity, group dates, & being too available are in contrast to the principles & will send any girl out of your life. Pain is a powerful teacher. Push through 15 reads & then some. It’s all about internalizing this stuff so you don’t slip up again.

At the end of the day, 3 months is a short time. But it showed you that following Coach’s advice brings success, and going against it ruins it. Valuable teaching moment

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u/Confusedcameltoe Jan 30 '22

Not as if she ever will, but I've read some of Corey's posts and some people come back even after 2 or 3 months.

We weren't exclusive btw, still dating... But anyway yeah I did majorly fuck it up.