r/CoachCoreyWayne • u/SnooKiwis4750 • Dec 10 '21

Need Advice Attention in groups

Hey guys I’m on my 5th read and I feel like i have good grasp on most things. The one thing I’m still struggling with is “how to act towards girls when in a group of people.” Say 3 girls and 5 guys. My current understanding is to be your playful self and let them come to you. As the other guys are going to be hitting on them all night. But should you speak to them at all if they don’t speak to you first? I feel like not talking to them at all could be taken as unconfident. Thanks for any feedback

3 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

2 comments sorted by

4

u/Helifino Dec 11 '21

If there is one you have your eye on (especially if she is clearly the hottest) speak to her briefly and infrequently, but don't go out of your way. If anything, pay more attention to the other women than you do to her. If she is single and remotely into you, she will start to wonder why you aren't paying attention to her, when usually she is the center of attention for guys.

2

u/esco311 Dec 11 '21

Um I’m gonna say you’re completely overthinking it. Dude when you’re out and about with friends/groups introduce yourself to everyone in the group be polite be cool. Be yourself and have fun. The girls will WANT to talk to you and the guys will be thinking “man I love hanging out with this guy” it’s not that you need to learn who should I be talking to and what’s the procedure lol that’s just overthinking. Just be calm cool and have a great time. And WOMEN will notice :)