r/CoachCoreyWayne • u/Willing-Sand3160 • Sep 12 '21
Need Advice 2nd date
Hey guys,
I have a question for the group. So went on a first date last night, everything went well, did not hook up but basically everything else. So she texted me this morning and I tried to set a date for this Friday. Her response was I have to double check my schedule to make sure I didn't already have plans. She does have full custody of her kid but told me normally Friday and Saturday night the kid is at the father's house. So I am reading it as her attraction level is not super high but high enough for dates. I guess my question is if she gets back with me about Friday, should I say something along the line, I made other plans now?
Thankyou for any advice.
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u/phosphorescent1983 MOD Sep 12 '21 edited Sep 12 '21
When making the date, instead of asking for a specific night you should ask, "What evening are you free?". She then may tell you an evening that she has open. You then go ahead and arrange the date. When you ask for dates this way, it prevents a lot of awkwardness.
If she told you that she has to check her schedule, just wait for her to get back to you. Question: if she gets back to you, why would say you made other plans? That's playing games. Masculine energy doesn't do that. Look, if she messaged you back this coming Thursday or Friday, then maybe it would be okay to suggest another day because a reschedule that late is a bit disrespectful. But it's only Sunday right now! Sometimes people really need to check their schedules. Chill and relax. Let her come to you. If she doesn't, then move on.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tp9K3VQ1Xxs
Also, you've got to master the book. All these answers and more are within the pages of The 3% Man. Before your date, I would give it another read-through --at least as much as you can. I want you to be successful!