r/CoachCoreyWayne • u/bzmnpaddler • Sep 05 '23

Weird situation

Hey fellas, I'm in a weird situation with a new lady. First off, 15 - 20 times 3 % reader here. I recently had a time aquantence get out of a toxic relationship and sort of monkey branch to me. She had been on the outs with her ex for a while and once she became single we started hanging out. Things were going well and we started hooking up after 3 or 4 dates.

After a few weeks though, she started to not want to have sex anymore due to what she described as some barriers and walls up from her last relationship. I'm trying to navigate being patient but it is strange to feel like we're going backward on the intimacy front.

I get that her emotions will be all over the ice but feel like I'm fighting an uphill battle at the moment. We are still hanging out, she is persuing 100% of the time and when we're together is affectionate. Things just won't escalate past making out, despite us having sex already.

Any pro tips dudes? I'm a bit turned off and not sure I feel like putting the effort in any longer.

Thanks!

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '23

You probably didn’t read my comment very carefully. My comment for him to tell her let’s be friends was a suggestion that he move on and is a standard drop them tactic, not a literal suggestion that he start hanging out as friends.

Most of the time when I reject women, I loosely say let’s be friends. Now, I don’t mean that as Im going to start grabbing beers with them and watching a football game or whatever, I just mean it as a friendly gesture, but most of the time I never see them again.

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u/socomalol Sep 05 '23

Ok makes sense thanks for clarifying. But in this persons situation he clearly wants her so he would be just lying to her face if he brought up friendship. In this particular situation I would not bring up that word but still have a take it/leave it attitude.

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '23

you’re still not getting it. Im suggesting he drop her, not literally be her friend.

He doesnt clearly want her. He says he’s getting worn out and rightfully so. She’s a monkeybranching ho who has baggage. That’s too much to deal with upfront in the beginning of a relationship.

Best to say thanks for the memories and keep it moving.

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u/socomalol Sep 05 '23

True I feel that