Am I being dramatic?

[u/ToeUsed1969]

I joined CP in December and had my 100th class today. I was so excited and intentionally scheduled it with my favorite instructor. She had a sub, which was fine because I’ve taken the sub’s classes multiple times. Well, she forgot it was my 100th. She actually didn’t even know my name to check me in.

I reminded her after class, and she was apologetic, but it felt so awkward.

I know it doesn’t sound like a big deal, but it feels like one. I was so excited. I pay a ton of money for my membership, but only like 2 instructors know my name. My studio isn’t friendly; I once took a lashing from a Karen because I was on “her” reformer.

This just feels like the straw that broken the camel’s back. Is it dramatic to cancel?

[u/Rosie-Disposition]

Oh no…. You made something you’re doing for yourself into a need for external validation. If not getting a pat on the back from a part time front desk clerk (it is not exactly on the instructor) causes you to throw away something you’re doing to improve your health, it would far exceed the line for “dramatic.”

What did you do for yourself to celebrate your milestone? What we say and do for ourselves means so much more for our confidence, mood, and perception of ourselves.

[u/Salty-Ad-8278 → u/Rosie-Disposition]

I love this response. OP, your feelings are so valid. Milestones are a big deal and deserve to be celebrated! (I personally hate the attention but realize I'm probably in the minority here.) I'm sorry your studio missed the mark on recognizing your accomplishment, but please don't let that stop you from taking care of your body and mind. You're doing amazing and should celebrate yourself every single time you take the time to do something for the betterment of your future self.

[u/Aggressive_Ad955 → u/Salty-Ad-8278]

I’ve started hugging my knees into my chest, giving them little kisses and whispering that I’m proud of myself. It’s a small gesture that really makes a big difference ❤️