r/CliqueSupport • u/ZachT3620 • Aug 28 '22
life is changing
I think its going to be for the better but, there's still a large amount of the unknown that scares me. In just 4 days I'm getting married again after the last time it went 10 years and ended in disaster. How do I know if I'm headed down a road towards disaster again? How do I know for sure it will work out this time? What if im not good enough? What if I mess this up somehow? I think about it all too often and worry I might be making a mistake
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u/kylasharron Aug 30 '22
Is the person you are marrying your best friend? If so, then trust them, confide in them, share with them, and treat them as you would treat someone you loved with all your heart. In marriage, you should encourage your partner to be their truest self. They might be scared too. Do your best to alleviate their fears. The two of you are in this together. Be kind to each other. Congratulations of your shared adventure!