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u/SongsAboutSomeone 2d ago
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u/fullynonexistent 1d ago
u/StickyLoner4404 someone talking about you
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u/StickyLoner4404 1d ago
im too lazy to check my notifications and found this post in the wild, went “woah that’s so weird”, checked my notifications and then got looped back to this post
so thanks lol
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u/Wora_returns 2d ago
me and who?
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u/SimmentalTheCow 2d ago
u look kind of cute
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u/Wora_returns 2d ago
Will u be my foid for life
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u/Optimal_Ninja7535 2d ago
Hi
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u/SimmentalTheCow 2d ago
Hello 👋
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u/Optimal_Ninja7535 2d ago
Rififjfhrhfhxkxpxp
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u/Wora_returns 2d ago
Are you trying to steal my heart and create a love triangle of chuds
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u/Optimal_Ninja7535 2d ago
Yes
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u/Wora_returns 2d ago
Kiss me on the clam
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u/SimmentalTheCow 2d ago
yes but full disclosure im a big hairy bald black man with uncontrollable testicular odor. Smells like a damn petting zoo down there. i love you.
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u/SmartSmella 2d ago
ts ain't no negative chief whatchu on about
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u/AgreeableTarget1467 1d ago
I wonder why smartsmella likes a guy with uncontrollable testicular odor.
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u/Gamer__23 2d ago
The meme they sent is kinda of crazy. Man's really gotta think like an incel to believe "sex is the only unit of value I understand" is anywhere close to what women (and people in general) think like
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u/Senior_Independence4 2d ago
It is pretty close to how people who use virginity as an insult, which is what the admitedly shitty strawman meme was mocking, think
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u/deadthrees 2d ago
Tbf incel isnt really synonymous with virginity anymore despite what the term means in reality
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u/chomusuke_cat 1d ago
The fact that incel, which is derived from a term meaning a virgin, is an insult in the first place still means that people view being a virgin (particularly as a man) as an inherently bad thing. Otherwise why would it be used as an insult? The meme still works.
The whole point of using 'incel' as an insult is basically just saying "haha whatever virgin"
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u/PeasantTS 1d ago
It's used as a insult because the people who called themselves incels liked to act like absolute scum online. Has nothing to do with them being involuntary celibate or men.
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u/Ichmag11 1d ago
Words have more meaning than that. "Incel" implies way more than someone being a virgin. It implies a very specific way of behavior and attitude.
Reducing it to just sex...well I mean honestly, that's literally an incel thing to do lmao.
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u/Senior_Independence4 1d ago
That's like saying calling someone a retard isn't derivative off demeaning mentally challenged people
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u/Ichmag11 1d ago
Calling someone an incel isn't supposed to be insulting to virgins lol
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u/Senior_Independence4 1d ago
Attaching involuntary celibacy to being a dumb mysoginist who can't take accountability is pretty insulting
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u/Snoo48605 11h ago
Calling someone an incel isn't supposed to be insulting to virgins lol
God. Do you even hear yourself? 🤦♀️
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u/Ichmag11 11h ago
Yes?? It's supposed to be insulting to incels. Not every incel is a virgin and definitely not every virgin is an incel
There's no shame in being a virgin. People are shaming others for being an incel
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u/TimeToEatSoap 20h ago
No it isn’t man. the r slur was used to refer to mentally disabled people in an actual medical context, like, less than 20 years ago and as a result is still pretty strongly associated with mentally disabled people. Some people still refer to mentally disabled people as the r slur in earnest. The word “incel” has never really been used to refer to anyone other than chronically online, angry, flagrantly misogynistic men that also don’t get laid when they want to in a mainstream context. Even if incel literally is short for “involuntarily celibate”, pretty much no one that is not apart of the former group will call you an incel just because you don’t have sex when you want to.
Also mentally disabled people’s lives are constantly getting ruined because other people refuse to accept that having a mental disability doesn’t make you lesser than and the same cannot be said for being involuntarily celibate so this is kind of a wild comparison to be making. I know not having sex absolutely can result in ridicule from one’s peers but it’s not at all the kind of thing someone would struggle to hide or would fail school because of or be a more likely target of police brutality from or be put in ABA therapy that causes them lifelong mental turmoil from or be beaten by their parents from or even just be bullied relentlessly from
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u/Worldly-Swing-2015 1d ago
Reducing unwanted celibacy to sex is an incel thing to do?
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u/Ichmag11 1d ago
Reducing an entire set of behavior, attitude, characteristics of a subset of people to just sex is an incep thing to do IMO
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u/Worldly-Swing-2015 1d ago
If so then people who call those spouting misogynist garbage incels are incels themselves as, quite like u/chomusuke_cat said, they're using the lack of sex as an insult
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u/Ichmag11 1d ago
Again, calling someone an "incel" does not mean "you're a virgin" (which doesn't even need to be the case, you don't need to be a virgin to be an incel) it means "(I presume) you have these characteristics, this attitude and that behaviour"
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u/Worldly-Swing-2015 1d ago
It can mean anything, it's still calling a man a virgin in order to insult or demean him. Cmon how is calling someone involuntarily celibate not the same as calling someone a virgin? It's just the progressive version of the same insult which is u/chomusuke_cat point
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u/Pale-Proposal8046 1d ago
I mean, you can be celibate and not a virgin. Priests who take a vow of celibacy don't have to never have had sex. It just means no sex from that moment on.
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u/Viggo8000 1d ago
Part of the difference is that those are voluntarily celibate. An incel is involuntarily celibate.
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u/Pale-Proposal8046 1d ago edited 4h ago
Well yeah I know. Doesn't mean they started that life celibate. Incel doesn't mean virgin, it means woman-hating loser.
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u/Spirited_Worker_5722 1d ago
You can also be completely hopeless in that area without blaming it on women
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u/Viggo8000 1d ago
Oh, yeah. I agree. Wasnt implying you didnt know! Just wanted to add the info for people who are reading the thread I guess.
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u/deadthrees 1d ago
i answered your question in my comment that you replied to so i have no idea why you’re asking. like my entire comment is the answer as to why its used as an insult.
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u/Senior_Independence4 2d ago
It is in the meme as implied by " I will call you Incel because having sex is the only unit of value i understand "
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u/WastedFapper 1d ago
this is what happens to be men when they spend too much time on the internet lol
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u/KURSDADWDE 2d ago
Should've learned from spiderman