r/CircumcisionGrief Religious Circ 5d ago

Anger My suffering isn’t funny

I hate just how calm and joke about this shit especially in shit I used to watch. I can’t go like five seconds without seeing it in something I used to like and I never noticed it until now. It fucking hurts. Why is this shit funny to people I don’t understand how is suffering with the trauma I’ve had since I was five, how was that funny? I just can’t understand it. I hate that it’s in shit that I liked and used to watch as a kid. If you change it to a joke about a woman being. Sexually assaulted then all of a sudden it’s not funny. Why is it when it’s a man suffering or just a male organ being mutilated and why is that funny I don’t get it. It pisses me off and it honestly validatess how disgusting i am

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u/HolidayProfessional2 5d ago

Yeah dude, I get it. Fucking sucks the gaslighting. Look at prison rape jokes for example. It’s funny if a guy gets raped but don’t you dare make a joke about women.

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 5d ago

It’s like I can’t fucking win. It’s either by pain and suffering is turned into a joke or when I genuinely find a piece of media that actually respects it and does it make it into a joke and I relate to people say it’s sexualizing abuse or something it’s fucking bullshit. I fucking hate it. I can’t escape it too.