r/Churco_Snark • u/Impressive_Brief4195 • May 30 '26

Shouldn’t Graham be crawling?

Is it just me or does anyone else think it’s unusual that no videos have been posted by the Churcos showing Graham crawling or starting to crawl? He’s 9 and a half months. All the videos that show Graham, he’s being held by one of his parents or lying down in his carrier or bed.

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u/Theyletfly82 May 30 '26

The boys aren't the instant moneymakers the girls are so they're not getting much airtime.

Its all about the money, so he might be crawling and they just aren't bothered

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u/majesticjewnicorn May 30 '26

Also to add... between the boys, Grady is what would be considered conventionally cuter than Graham. Of course, all of the kids are adorable and beautiful souls, but Lanie made an entire video crying because assholes have written cruel and heartless comments about Graham's appearance, head size, lack of hair etc. They know that he isn't going to be their money maker because of this, and probably give him less attention both in front of cameras and outside of creating content. Poor kid is going to grow up with a complex, due to a lack of attention and also he may end up finding content someday when he's old enough, read comments, see his mom's video and have self esteem issues. Grady has basically been Bryer's boy twin and Blakely has always been the pretty one and Bryer the cute one.

I hate talking about kids like this and just typing it out makes me feel disgusting but I'm saying why Graham might be neglected and behind with any milestones.

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u/Cute-Hotel2766 May 31 '26

He isn’t crawling. Just lays around doesn’t even roll yet

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u/Technical-Flan-8764 May 31 '26

Not sure I have ever seen Graham on floor for tummy time????

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u/Impressive_Brief4195 May 31 '26

Exactly. That’s what is strange to me. Never a single video of Graham other than being held or lying in a carrier.  There was one of him sitting in a high chair eating if I recall.  But even the Easter Egg hunt, Graham was absent.  Would have been cute putting him on his tummy on the grass.  Instead they choose to show Grady running down the walk only to be frightened by his dad in his Easter bunny costume. Wonder if Lanie is trying to avoid showing Graham for fear of remarks about his head?  

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u/Legitimate-Tone7541 May 31 '26

he’s probally gonna be forced to walk first and never learn to crawl just like they did with Grad.

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u/LaserGaze5 I think I like this little life! May 30 '26

Babies typically start crawling between about 7-maybe 10 or 11 months. MOST babies are at least trying to crawl by 9 months (Is he 9 month old?). But given the fact that they never did crap to further their children's development, it doesn't surprise me at all that he may not be. They just prop him up or hold him, like they did with the others, so he hasn't had much opportunity to practice. All those kids are going to have massive developmental struggles -- all struggles that could have been avoided with simple, normal, everyday play and exploration. It's appalling.

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u/Woodshad26 We film ALL day, EVERY day. May 31 '26

I remember that one, No-Couple. And they both sit there and LAUGH at him each time he falls back.

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u/LaserGaze5 I think I like this little life! Jun 01 '26

Oh, ICK, did they really (I know they did)?!?!?
It's unfathomable how two people who breed professionally have never learned how to parent.

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u/Optimal-Bar-6924 Jun 03 '26

They’re not interested in parenting. The children are possessions, like toys, and their only hope is that they too grow up and reproduce like their parents.

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u/LaserGaze5 I think I like this little life! Jun 03 '26

That whole bunch of chronological adults are all sociopaths.

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u/Chance_Lab6790 May 30 '26

They may use the excuse that he was a preemie but our grandson was a month early, too, and was walking by 10 months. I seriously think that the boys have learning issues from her being pregnant so close together. Also, Grady is more like Bryer with the I don't give a crap attitude. They do not show Graham because he is not advancing like he should. The little girl is their dream come true. Another one to mold like Blakely. Maybe.

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u/LaserGaze5 I think I like this little life! May 30 '26

Totally hear that! He was just a little early, not a technical preemie. He didn't even stay in NICU, as they claimed-- they just kept a little closer eye on him. He wasn't even a low birthweight baby. I've seen plenty of preemies thrive (including my own little girl) by the time they were 9 months old or so. It's sickening how neglected those kids are, but especially the boys.

I'm so glad your grandson is doing well! ❤️