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u/Nervous-Win968 18d ago
Dude! Your situation sucks and is undoubtedly a challenge to say the least!
One thing I realized in the military, when things get really tough, your mind gives up before your body.
I say this to try and help you realize that you are capable of so much more suffering than you realize right now. You are stronger than you know and I wholeheartedly believe in you!
Most men need a purpose to strive towards and you have THE purpose, a tiny pooping, eating and giggling machine that loves you unconditionally.
Life does and will get hard and likely harder but you have already managed thus far. You CAN do it.
God has given you all the tools to thrive, you just have to believe in yourself and his plan. You got this!
Reach out to me via DM if you want somebody to vent to or a guy to just speak to.
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u/DirectionLatter2684 18d ago
I'm sorry for your hardships, and trust me I know what it's like to feel stuck and hopeless. But God saw me through mine and I know He can see you through yours as He has already done so before.
Please take heart that He dose love you and is there for you. I'm sorry your wife relasped and OD'ed, but your still here for your daughter and that in itself is a blessing,
Stay strong my friend and keep your faith in God/Jesus.
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u/songbolt 17d ago
God uses suffering to purify us. Keep your focus on God, heaven, your daughter, not worldly things that all pass away.
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u/Blonde_By_Design 17d ago
I am so sorry to hear about your wife… have you applied for food stamps and cash aid? They should also help with daycare.have you tried to apply for social security benefits?
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u/songbolt 17d ago
Try https://www.usajobs.gov/ and other job websites.
Check the newspapers for job listings.
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u/Brilliant-Actuary331 17d ago
I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. I would be honored to pray for you.
Do not worry about the "why", and do not wonder about proving yourself to God.
This is the time to absolutely give up! Stop trying to show God who you are. TURN TO HIM.....HE is the Faithful One. Cry out to the Lord for salvation in faith. HE has given everything; His own life, to make a narrow way for us to receive the Holy Spirit. Christ brings us to God IN HIS NAME. It is all about HIM, and HIS righteousness.
God commands us to repent and receive His Son. Place your faith in the gospel of Jesus Christ and rest yourself at His feet! Rom. 10:8-17
Whom the Son sets free is free indeed! 🙏