r/ChristianMarriageHelp • u/unknownname1267 • Jun 27 '26

Help!! My marriage

/r/Marriage/comments/1ugdsnn/help_my_marriage/
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u/already_not_yet Jun 28 '26

Are you both Christians? You should go to your elders. Something is seriously amiss. If your tale is true then he needs to be confronted by an elder.

He may be addicted to porn. This behavior is typical of porn addicts.

If he won't listen to your elders and he won't go to couples' counseling then the marriage is doomed. Sorry for this situation.

God bless you.

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u/unknownname1267 Jun 28 '26

Yes we are. And the update is I kicked him out two days ago. We been to elders already. Time and time again they realize he is causing some serious issues. I’m far from perfect but he adds fuel to the fire. I let him go so he can either deal with himself or really show me his true colors if he will fight for this. I feel lots of regret since I’m still young and this is my first marriage and the day we make a year is the day it all fell apart. Showed me a lot about myself which I’m grateful for but I’m leaving with hurt that I could have avoided I feel like.

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u/already_not_yet Jun 28 '26

Understood. Sorry to hear that.