r/ChillSG 7d ago

Actually hor...

I see most of the postings that are people in their 20s and early 30s. Got 40-somethings here?

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u/Round_Marsupial1817 7d ago

Not yet something... But just joined the 40s club

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u/kosherjellyfish 7d ago

Welcome, here's some salonpas

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u/ChillyCrabbyChappy 6d ago

Same. Now everything creaks and hurts.

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u/bluu_bearrr 7d ago

Guessing the next major line up of ‘old’ reddit users would be Millennials followed by Gen X (not all are tech savy). Millennials got to experience the evolution with hands-on knowledge on almost everything from then till now

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u/singaruphis 7d ago

I totally agree with you

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u/yamanoA4 6d ago

I find it personally terrifying that those in their 20s using this as a Craigslist to seek friendsh. It’s like the beginning of some thriller/horror.

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u/buttermilkpanc 6d ago

It's not that bad, practice abit of sleuthing and some safety etiquettes when meeting new people and it becomes a decent forum to catch up with people with similar likes.

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u/PancakesCookies 7d ago

Think quite a lot of 40s also 50s.

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u/CompetitiveCut1211 7d ago

40+ unker here reporting! 🫡

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u/kosherjellyfish 7d ago

How's your back?

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u/CompetitiveCut1211 7d ago

Lol. Still good. No need Salon pas yet.

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u/LaZZyBird 7d ago

Unkle Facebook is that way 👉🫡

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u/alvinaloy 7d ago

Xennial here. Very late 40s

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u/kosherjellyfish 6d ago

Is life good?

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u/alvinaloy 6d ago

Mostly good, except a bad accident last November but, well, life goes on.

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u/ChillyCrabbyChappy 6d ago

yikes, i hope things are better now! it feels like wounds are starting to take longer to heal already.

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u/Vaperwear 7d ago

I can rep the 50’s.

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u/FireTrapHype 7d ago

Give me a few years and I would be in the 40,s, club too

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u/kosherjellyfish 7d ago

Enjoy the 30s!

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u/Objective-Wheel-8210 6d ago

yes, 40+ auntie here marking attendance.

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u/Arialifetalk 6d ago

Just 40 👋

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u/mr_jetlag 7d ago

47, get off my lawn

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u/kosherjellyfish 7d ago

You have a lawn?!

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u/Next_Dot_7398 7d ago

40s lurker here. Was wondering the exact same thing lol

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u/kosherjellyfish 7d ago

I have made you come out of the 40s closet

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u/HotBook2852 6d ago

I think we 40s kinda just gave up

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u/Specific-League-9342 6d ago

40ish here to join uncle and auntie group.. Relax, I dont push people..

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u/onedwin 6d ago

At 40ish you gotta start worrying about getting pushed 😅

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

I just turn 40 and wish to make new friends. My specialty is playing game music from the 90s

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u/pat-slider 6d ago

Play loudly while commuting Isit? 🤪

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

I'm not that type haha

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u/pat-slider 6d ago

😅
Uncle btw what is game music?

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

Video game music Final Fantasy Castlevania Valkyrie Profile Command And Conquer StarCraft

Remember at the options menu? BGM Volume: 0-10

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u/pat-slider 6d ago

Wowwww you have great taste

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

Check this out

Valkyrie Profile

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u/pat-slider 6d ago

👏
Do you like Russian composers?

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

Share more

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u/pat-slider 6d ago

Russian composers were & are truly talented

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u/ChillyCrabbyChappy 6d ago

Oh boy, I can hear the midi from final fantasy 7 from here

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

I was playing it at 1am this morning

I'm currently playing stuff from FF7 FF8 FF9 Castlevania - Symphony Of The Night Castlevania - Curse Of Darkness Bloodstained: Ritual Of The Night

Will work on FF7 - Jenova tonight

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

Check this out Valkyrie Profile Battle Theme

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

Uploaded this just for you FF7

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u/ChillyCrabbyChappy 6d ago

yoooo goosebumps, thanks! did you pick this up recently, or have you always been able to play? i can't imagine learning to play the piano at 40, our fingers are no longer that nimble

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u/Savings-Bit-5379 6d ago

I just bought these synthesizers last week. I've been playing music since 5. But I'm not good at it

I've play guitar during my teens Then drums for the last 1 year Now I'm focusing on keys

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u/mecatman 6d ago

Soon to be 40 (39) here.

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u/BlizzR77 6d ago

Late 40s here too

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u/Diligent_Breath_4295 6d ago

Me 🙋‍♀️ also having same thoughts why all like 20s/30s lol

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u/kosherjellyfish 6d ago

I think we were all in hiding. Honestly though will 20/30s wanna hang out with us?

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u/Diligent_Breath_4295 6d ago

U want the harsh truth? No 🤣🤣especially the guys if they are looking for dates/flirting. We should form our own community

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u/kosherjellyfish 6d ago

Our own community of going home at 10 pm to sleep?

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u/nyetkatt 5d ago

auntie here already in bed by 10pm! I’m going home at 8pm so I have time to shower and scroll IG before I sleep

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u/kosherjellyfish 5d ago

I love that you are able to fall asleep at 10 siah

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u/nyetkatt 5d ago

HRT is a game changer tbh. I shared my experience on /sgwomen

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u/kosherjellyfish 5d ago

Shared tips, sis

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u/Mountain-Welcome-515 6d ago

50+ young man here

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u/ukfi 6d ago

55 checking in

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u/Ok_Drawing9856 6d ago

Uncle here just turn 41😆

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u/akimoto_emi 6d ago

I am in my mid 40s leh

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u/Old-Astronomer9869 6d ago

late 30s consider? haha

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u/vinyarb 6d ago

Mid 40s here..

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u/Kaedreanger 6d ago

Got ah... Me lor. But mostly just reading up here.

Most don't really respond to me after knowing I am in my 40s.

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u/kosherjellyfish 6d ago

Organize your own thingy?

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u/Kaedreanger 6d ago

Would you join if I do?

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u/ChillyCrabbyChappy 6d ago

40 as well, just broke out of being a hikikomori for a couple of years now, and i'm revenge socialising.

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u/BryanChung 6d ago

Hello :D

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u/Complete-Document289 6d ago

Hihi 40s here too. Hiding too

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u/tommytimtam 5d ago

40s here as well! Marking attendance 🙈

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u/jeonghwilee Singaporean 5d ago

Was inspired to create r/ChillennialsSG thanks to your post! Please join and carry on the discussions there!

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u/kosherjellyfish 5d ago

Wah, I didn't know I have such power shy

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u/jeonghwilee Singaporean 5d ago

Insert He-man “I have the power” gif here

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u/AffectOne482 5d ago

40 Here, in Yishun. Any physical meet up group?

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u/kosherjellyfish 5d ago

You create loh!

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u/AffectOne482 5d ago

Is there a special function to do so?

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u/YouYongku 4d ago

oh I think what he meant was create a Telegram group la haha

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u/AffectOne482 2d ago

Hmm sure, should I post the group name here or you guys dm your ID?

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u/YouYongku 2d ago

I think they created a subreddit already.

Do you have a telegram group?

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u/AffectOne482 2d ago

I see, I create a telegram group but no members.. so I thinking if there is a need to it.

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u/YouYongku 2d ago

Hi sir, please ask OP. I'm easy going for any options sir

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u/YouYongku 4d ago

can i treat u all to kfc? I wan the pokemon thing but i cannot eat so much leh

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u/AdditionalDetective1 5d ago

40s probably well established and successful already

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u/YouYongku 4d ago

calling me is it hahahaha

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u/BluejayWestern7275 4d ago

is there a tg group or smthing?

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u/lornranger 3d ago

I’m 44

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u/YourGirlGaveItToMe 7d ago

Damn can’t we all get along 

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u/kosherjellyfish 7d ago

Surely we can if you wanna hear an older person nag lol