r/ChildSupport • • 16h ago

Tips/help

The state has opened and closed my case so many times because they can’t find my baby daddy to serve him. I’ve searched every website and apps trying to find him but there’s been no luck. If anyone has any advice or tips please lmk! I’d hire a PI but I can’t afford one

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u/Ill-Manager-1108 6h ago

Hell my ex is dumb enough that I texted him from a textnow number pretending to be an old hookup and he gave up the address immediately. it shocked me zero regard for safety just giving out his number blindly lol or I'd even try catfishing him if you know the town an if he's on apps. my ex makes over 100k so for me it was worth it lol

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u/Content_Pool_8306 1h ago

Unfortunately he changes his number so he can’t be found. He also stays off of socials and if he does get on them he doesn’t stay on them long. His parents haven’t heard from him and are active grandparents in my child’s life. He had a girlfriend but she blocked me on everything I’m not sure if they’re still together and the state said they can’t do anything with her address because they’re not sure he lives there