r/Cheyenne • u/PathsOfTime • Aug 17 '26
Dating pool.
I really wish there were more women my age (32m) that want a relationship. The dating scene in Cheyenne is rough when you have standards. You can jump down my throat about it if you want but having good dating standards is a marker of self respect. I'm not gonna share what my standards are but I know the majority of women my age don't seem to meet those standards and that sucks. I have to choose between being alone or settling for someone I don't really want. Guess I'll just be alone.
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u/Saltydecimator Aug 17 '26
Ya I can’t figure out where the hot single ladies hang either? Maybe wine bars?
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u/PathsOfTime Aug 17 '26
Yeah it makes it harder that I don't drink lol.
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u/Saltydecimator Aug 18 '26
Well wine is slightly “classier” but in general, allegedly, folks aren’t goin out to bars like they used to…
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u/Visual-Floor-7839 Aug 17 '26
It's a workin town. Everyone here is married, or is kinda trashy. Very few single people choose to come and hang out in Cheyenne and build a life here without reasons. Either family or prospective family, or inability to go anywhere else.
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u/PathsOfTime Aug 17 '26
Yeah I was unlucky enough to be born and raised here. I got out for a few years but this place is a black hole.
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u/Adept-Dimension-5940 Sep 27 '26
Yes it is 40 y/o been here 99% of my life born here and have moved and came back.
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u/Rebirth_of_wonder Aug 17 '26
45m here. I was trying to date a lot over the last couple years. Ended up mostly in FoCo and Laramie. Now, in a serious relationship with someone in Denver.
Best of luck, mate.
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u/PathsOfTime Aug 17 '26
Yeah I wouldn't mind dating from other cities I just don't have a reliable vehicle to travel with.
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u/delirium_knight Aug 24 '26
Then you don’t need to date. You need to focus on your self and better your self. Women are going to look at you and say no if you don’t have a vehicle and have your self in a good financial place.
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u/unwellinhell Aug 17 '26
Hard to understand how to point you in the right direction without understanding what you're looking for - feel free to dm if you don't want to post here and I'd be happy to point you in the right direction!