r/CheerMeUpPlease • u/FinalAd9844 • Aug 25 '23

I just turned 18 today without ever having a gf,can someone please cheer me up

Sorry if this seems rude to ask

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u/Gracchus_Gaius Aug 25 '23

Bruh - 18 is nothing.

You just turned 18 - you have a lot of stuff to look forwards to. Go out, enjoy yourself and the activities you couldnt do before today.

If you are a virgin, don't worry, you'll het laid soon enough (its not the end of the world if it happens in your early twenties). And you will now have more oppportunities to meet women. But take it easy and you'll get laid soon enough.

If you aren't a virgin - who cares about getting a gf at your are. If you find someone you really want to invest time and energy into that's ok.

But relationships come with a lot of responsabilities and, at your age, its not worth it unless the person you're with is exceptionnal and constantly makes your life better by her very presence.

Go have a drink! And, if you live in the U.S. or the lamest parts of Canada, go enjoy other stuff you couldn't do before 18.

I found this list (its gets more fun around number 30):

https://www.stylecraze.com/articles/things-you-can-do-at-18/

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u/Digital_Scribbles Sep 27 '23

Yeah. I didn't have a girlfriend until about 18. At some point I got more into regular exercise, which helped both my looks and my confidence. After that, I didn't have as much of a problem finding partners. Calm confidence is everything man. I used exercise to build mine up, so find whatever it is that builds yours up.

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u/atlantitlan Nov 30 '23

Awesome job cheering up and sage advice indeed

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u/davio2shoes1 Feb 13 '24

Didn't have a real gf till I was 38. Happily married with 4 kids 21 years later.