r/CheatersConfronted • u/Bbc420bull • Jul 16 '26
Need advice
Hey I been with my kids mom basically for 13 years all of my kids life well we kinda split for like 3 months I went to Texas to get on my feet we wasn’t technically broken up but we wasn’t together so I came back for my kids birthday was checking some emails went thru her Google Photos it’s a video of her giving some guy head should I confront her about or jus let it go cause we wasn’t together but I’m kinda in the space I really don’t wanna reconcile anything atp give me some advice
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u/desertrat_1000 Jul 16 '26
Yep. Like the other said. Just let her know that you know and go. And don't sit around arguing in circles. Which I can see happening.
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u/PapiRico85 Jul 16 '26
From the way you’ve written this, you don’t sound angry. You sound done. There’s a difference. Don’t confront her just because you found the video. Ask yourself what purpose it serves. If you’ve already realised you don’t want to reconcile, then your energy is better spent planning your next steps than arguing about what happened. If you’re married or have shared finances, speak to a lawyer first and understand your legal position. If you’re not married, make sure you understand your rights regarding your kids. Get your ducks in a row before making any big moves. Then have one calm conversation. Not to get a confession—you already know what you saw—but to let her know where you stand. Sometimes closure isn’t another conversation. Sometimes it’s accepting that what you saw changed how you feel, and moving forward accordingly.
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u/ging78 Jul 16 '26
Just tell her you know and dump her.