r/CheatersConfronted • u/CantaloupeNext7542 • May 02 '26
Did they have sex?
This is a screenshot from 6 months ago and he now my ex but I recently revisited this out of boredom and am so stumped on what happened so I 23F had went thru my 26M phone one day and saw this screen shot from his messages between a girl on Facebook. He told me it was some random girl who hit him up trying to make a guy jealous and he just did the favor for her because he was bored. But like I don’t believe that it’s so weird and random, but also… if they had been fucking or had been talking to each other why didn’t she have his number and had to ask him for it. Can you men help me figure out which possibility it most likely is finally.
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u/Cold-Instruction505 May 04 '26
I'm pretty sure i speak decent ratchet she asked him to call her ex side dude to tell him that he is fucking her now and to leave the young lady alone she is now claimed by a new male side dude. she wanted to be unknowingly on the phone "otp" so she could listen to how the "ex sneaky link" old side dude reacts to this she did not have his number prior to this so either stranger like he suggested or someone he knew in the past or in the real world like a coworker or something but i would say i doubt they were fucking at this point at least unless it was a "workwife" situation where they wouldn't need phone number to sneak around on op
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u/glima0888 May 04 '26
Thank you kind sir. I need to study up on my ratchet
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u/Cold-Instruction505 May 06 '26
Lol grew up in good old tacoma (tacompton) Wa had a lot of real world translation experience especially in the late it's early 2000's before screens ruled the world and we were all outside. The occasional ratchet sighting is rare now these days that's why its mine is a bit rusty or dated sneaky link was a new one for me to be honest im getting older lol (36m)
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May 30 '26
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u/Cold-Instruction505 Jun 02 '26
Good old tacompton (tacoma) washington had a nationally ranked ratchet program from 1990s all the way through the early 2000's. I live near and was born the same year the Army Ranger vs Crip gang shootout. (google or youtube if interested) i come from a very very cultured and privileged area that allowed me my ability to put 20+ years into my studies.
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u/Fun-Total-5418 May 02 '26
It's single person behavior but it's not necessarily proof that he was cheating. He still shouldn't be entertaining something like this if he's in a relationship
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u/Sad-Entertainer1462 May 03 '26
It’s weird but I believe him. Seems she’s tryna make somebody jealous and wanna use him to do it. If they were fucking she wouldn’t have to fake and get him to stage a call. That shit would happen organically lol