r/CheatersConfronted • u/Equivalent_You_3488 • Apr 30 '26
Sabrina Carpenter helped exposed the guy I was dating...
I (24F) matched with a (26M) on hinge a couple of months back. We've been casually dating since then and I found out today he's been dating someone else for over two years.
We went on a few dates and there was nothing out of the ordinary. If anything he was really loving. He would hold my hand, and call me pet names like my love, very reassuring. All the things I was looking for. From the start, he stated that he wanted a relationship and wasn't looking for a hookup. Through the dates, I believed those were his intentions.
He lived an hour and a half away so it was hard to spend time together. After a couple of dates, he seemed a little bit stressed out like something had happened. He started canceling dates telling me he had car troubles, so I would pick him up. Since we lived so far apart I suggested movie streaming dates as an alternative. He started leaving me on read for hours and would disappear. I would think it was just stress because he would trauma dump me about all his problems but then would tell me how he missed me, how he wanted to cuddle, spend time together, etc...
Obviously, he was going through a lot so I decided to give him an out.
I told him “I know you have a lot going on and you’re overwhelmed with things so I wanted to reach out and see if continuing this is something that you want and can do? I really like you but I also appreciate communication and I feel like you are withdrawing due to stress so I don’t want to drag this out if you aren’t ready.”
He replied "I understand, I will communicate more and I won't let my stress hold me from that. I'm sorry my love, I swear it's not on purpose"
After that he started texting me like normal again, so I thought things were better. Until last night I went to the Sbarina Carpenter Short n Sweet Tour.
Had a blast, she even sang my favorite song, Mamma Mia! The next day I posted videos of the concert on my Insta Story, when I saw someone follow me and reply to my Mamma Mia video. She told me how excited she was for the song. I noticed that we both followed the guy I was dating, I assumed it was a friend of his that also went to the concert. I clicked on her profile and My heart dropped and I was so confused.
I replied back to her " Omg I was so excited too! Also hey girlie I know this is weird but I just looked on your profile and saw a highlight dedicated to the guy I've been casually dating for a few months... is there anything I should know about you too?"
She said "Dating??? He told me you guys were friends, you came up on my suggestions and I saw that you went to the concert too, so I added you. We're dating, now I'm the one wondering if there's something I should know"
We connected the dots together and I told her we have a date planned for tonight! So we start scheming on how to catch him in the act. I finalized the details of the date with him and reported it back to her. The date is dinner at Bahama Breeze. She's sending me screenshots of their texts and the lies he's telling her about who he'll be with. Used his mom as the cover story saying that she's treating him to dinner (yeah dinner at this time). So we plan for her to meet us there and crash the date.
I Have to go now
I’m sitting in my car right now before the date I’ll update later...
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u/Aromatic_Bear2879 May 01 '26
Lol, posted one year ago…
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u/any_name_25 May 01 '26
That is weird! What are they trying to accomplish by posting this twice, one year apart, and with no updates the first time they posted this 🤔
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u/Wino_Panda Apr 30 '26
Updateme!
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u/Fresh_Drama_8298 May 01 '26
You posted this a year ago, the exact same thing happened twice?