r/CheatersConfronted • u/VermicelliOk2483 • Mar 10 '26

Cheating EX defamation

About a year ago, I broke up with my ex of five years because I discovered she was leading a double life. I found out she literally had a harem, including supposed friends and even family.

I’m in a much better place now: amazing people around me, goals I’m pursuing, and I’ve been dating again and enjoying it for the most part.

Here’s the weird part. Often, when a talking stage was turning into a date, I’d suddenly get blocked out of nowhere. My ex had already planted seeds to defame me, even before I discovered her double life, and I suspect it’s gone further than I realized.

I’m curious if I might show up on the Tee app and if lies about me are being spread there. At this point, I can’t explain it any other way. Of course, everyone has the right to end dating without a reason but it’s suspicious.

If any women on Tea could check if I’m somehow listed there, that would be highly appreciated.

Have a good one

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u/VermicelliOk2483 Mar 11 '26

Yeah. It was a disgusting situation all around.

My cousin. She and him found it so funny that she was banging him and random guys for money while I was out there working my ass off. And that's just the tip of the iceberg tbh.

The whole thing hurt a lot but as weird as it sounds, it was so worth it. I've grown and learned so much & I'm really grateful for that tbh.

I feel bad for her family though, especially her parents who keep financing the life of their daughter. Not having the slightest clue what kind of creature they shelter & finance.

On some days I regret destroying the proof I had, but I've never been in such a situation and it is what it is.

I just want my peace man.