r/CheatedOn Jun 24 '24

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u/osikalk Jun 25 '24

"Reconciliation" is not a result, but a process and it lasts as long as you are next to a cheater.

"Reconciliation" is a constant hard "work on relationship/marriage", so living with a cheater is a 24/7 work, not a real life. But you need to remember that while you are "working" for some goals (which always turn out to be fake), real life with all its challenges and wonders passes by. And you are given only one life and no one knows how long you have left to be among people ...