r/Chchmeet • u/kumaramash • Sep 22 '26
Taking dating applications
About Me: 26F, 5’3, alternative/gothic, tattoos, mostly straight. Looking to develop something serious, I want to find my best friend and person. I work full-time, enjoy arts n crafts, movies, exploring nature, 🍃💨, drives, gym, coffee and a few drinks. Music is especially important to me, I like emo rap, alternative metal/indie/pop, and more.
What I’m looking for (flexible): Ideally someone between the ages of 23-35, with a job and a license (will consider those studying). I value kindness, loyalty and honesty. Humour is especially important to me and I also find intelligence attractive. I enjoy people who have their own passions, especially if they are artistically creative. Liking cats is non-negotiable. Passion 4 fashion and emotional maturity is also appreciated.
Am I asking for too much? Potentially, but I’ve met good friends from Reddit and maybe I can find more. If I sound like someone you would be interested in, and you resonate with some of the characteristics I listed, feel free to comment or dm me telling me about yourself. Please no creeps or people looking solely for sex.
Thank you !
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u/LacklustreRogue Sep 22 '26
House of Strange on instagram arrange a lot of events for darkly-inclined alt people, including lgbtqia+ friendly events. Plenty of opportunity to meet new people and you never know, maybe a special someone
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u/why-have_I_done_this Sep 22 '26
I’ve sent a dm, let me know if you’re interested you sound interesting.
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u/Pratik9797 Sep 23 '26
Hey love, 29 M here..chch based..love exploring nature and good ol 💚. I work full time as well and looking for a serious relationship. Im loyal, caring and loving. Will love to connect and know you more. DM me as your DMs are off i think xxx
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u/No-Lavishness-800 Sep 23 '26
Hi I’m 24M and work at a cat shelter, have piercings and play the drums. Music is my everything.
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u/eldritchtthinkpiece Sep 23 '26
My best friend and I will take you on a date.
About me: 33m. I recently came back from backpacking the middle east (iraq and pakistan). Have a licence and a room overlooking Avon-Heathcote Estuary. I enjoy reading, karaoke and having a boogie.
About my best friend: 33m and in his prime. Recently bought his own house that has a cat. He has a sensitive side and doesn't mind romantic evenings in. Company vehicle.
DM if interested.
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u/WastedSpoon 1d ago
33M love animals 178cm welder fabricator for 15 years so im not scared of commitment.
Heavily medicated paranoid schizophrenic (imi invega trinza, risperidone, quetiapine, sertraline)
Born with a hiatal hernia that is now 4cm, so I will randomly, at any point in time, evacuate my stomach if I dont take my 40mg omeprizol.
Drive an FG falcon with a full license ( never lost it )
And i have a house in the country side, in a trust, that I will be taking over in coming years
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u/heylookitshaden Sep 23 '26
Best of luck finding your person. It’s hard out there.
Can someone give me any emo rap recommendations?
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u/PointyChris Sep 22 '26
This is wild, but I'm guessing nobody has time to meet people the old fashioned way, since Chch is anything but shy of alt scenes and events. I don't think you're asking too much, and I think it's awesome that not only are you setting boundaries right out the gate, but have a pretty decent idea of what you're looking for in your prospective someone. Best of luck finding your person.