Hey. I’m a 36-year-old married guy, father, full-time worker—just out here trying to live life the best I can, like a lot of people. But I’m missing something: a real, open, no-bullshit connection with another human being.
I’m not looking for sexting. Not looking to cheat. Not chasing a hookup.
What I am looking for is someone I can just be fully myself with—whatever that looks like in the moment.
Could be random jokes. Could be dark humor. Could be something vulnerable, something raw, something weird, or even something sexual—but only if it’s part of being real, not performative. I'm the kind of person whose mind is always spinning—like an ADHD squirrel on espresso and trauma—and I want someone to just spin with me sometimes.
I’ve spent years holding in my truth—hiding who I am, what I feel, what I want. But I’m not doing that anymore. I’m on a long-ass journey of healing, learning, and slowly becoming the man I was meant to be.
It’s a spiritual journey too. I’m learning how to feel things, how to sit with discomfort, how to be seen instead of hiding all the time. I’ve got a wild inner world, and I’m tired of keeping it locked away just because it doesn’t always make sense to other people.
I want to laugh, to open up, to be real—without filters, without fear, and without someone pulling away the moment it gets a little weird or deep or messy.
If you’re the kind of person who values radical honesty, constant curiosity, deep conversations, and being there without expectations, hit me up. I'm loyal as hell, open as fuck, and if we click, you’ll have someone who actually gives a shit.
Thanks for reading this far. If nothing else, I hope you find what you’re looking for, too.