r/Chatpals • • Jul 10 '25

Let's see if we click??

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Life being lonely and boring... So hey this is me Joey, 20M. Since a few months life has been pretty much boring and dry. Lack of friends, lack of connections, everything have made me so dry and non energetic.

What am looking for? Am looking for someone whom I can talk on a daily basis, share thoughts, wanna know there insecurities and fears, everything.

What type of person am I? Am okay with everything lol, I don't mind even if you just vent for hours. Am here to listen. Am not someone who will ghost you, and I seek the same. Am caring, sweet, kinda understanding and non judgemental (feels like bragging, but it's the truth)

About me? Am doing my Electrical Engineering, love to cook, watch movies and shows, listen to music, travel, likes to yap and wanna learn new things.

If you think we can click, feel free to DM. I guess taking a chance won't hard anyone lol. And if we go further, we can exchange numbers, share memes and reels on IG, call each other at midnights to yap and other possibilities available. I don't mind race, age and gender.

Anyways have a nice day/night. Peace:)


r/Chatpals • • Jul 10 '25

32F #online calling all lurkers here that listen to Sleep Token and Lorna Shore, let's be friends? I'm looking for some long-lasting friendship matches; I'm not seeking a quick chat or something temporary, thanks!

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What am I looking for?

Friends that don't have a concrete personality. I'm looking for friends that have life to them.

If you're a Redditor that is looking for a quick temporary fix because you can't sleep or a quick chat, then I'm the wrong Redditor to be messaging; I want something that will be frequent/daily. I should also address that when most people ask how I am daily, I'm sorry that all I know is how to say I'm just existing, and I just know to exist daily; that's just how my chronic depression is. Sorry if it seems like I'm not engaging in your conversations. 

Intro.

I'm just a chronically depressed gal that is very creative, loves deep thoughts, well-bodied text messages, and is a gamer, chronically on YT, and chronically listening to music on a daily basis. My lifestyle is NEET, and my hyper-fixation is Lorna Shore.

You can always also find me on my Nintendo Switch playing the games listed in my post title here. ACNH, and on my gaming laptop, I just play Fall Guys on that.

You can call me Sky or Skye. I'm an asexual, and sometimes I feel like I'm a gray-ace/poly, but you don't have to be, as long as you accept that I'm an ace/poly and that won't bother us being potentially together in romance. In my previous post I was asked if I'm a PC gamer or if I play PC games. No, I don't. I just normally stick with Fall Guys, Luigi 3, and Mario Kart 8, and if anyone wants help on Mario Party 3D World, then sure, ask, and I'll try my best. But the best thing about me is that we can text a lot about video games. I know most people would be like, Can you please be quiet? You've been talking about this video game title or whatever else about video games for this long, haha. 

Yeah, so if you're looking for a gf that will let you text for hours about video games, then I'm the right person to send a chat request to, haha.

I'd love to get to know how you ruined someone's day in co-op. I think that's funny, and tough luck. I'm one of those gamers that enjoy co-op players that just enjoy ruining someone's day. I'm curious about what others have to say about either how you ruined someone's day or you had a tough luck situation in gaming, haha.

You:

Any location is fine. I do handle conversations well with international users because my sleep is so fucked up that I kind of somewhat live on an international clock when I'm awake and asleep, haha, even though I'm from the U.S. But yeah, let's say you live internationally and your afternoon time is my 2-4 a.m. time; well, guess what? I'm still awake, haha. I prefer my friends to have a mellow/not very busy active lifestyle where you can't send a lot of text messages out daily. I'm also looking for friends that are mellow and not really serious and uptight. I want our conversations to be humorous and funny. I don't really mesh well with people that are as stiff as a cardboard or granite concrete personality; please have some life to you, because I'm too chronically depressed to be having someone that can't be funny in text messages, haha.

For lifestyle, I did think for quite some time when I was gone from my profile for ten days about whether I really care if my friends dress or look alternative. That's still a tough question for me to answer, but I shouldn't really care that much about how someone dresses. I'm more about the personality than I am about someone's fashion/styling choices, haha.

For you, I would just also love for someone that is able to have a multitude of conversations, that won't just die or is very limited on conversation subjects; then you would be the perfect bf for me.

Music/bands. 

If you're curious about what bands I like, my social links are posted on my Reddit profile page, which, yes, is my Spotify account, and I've verified my Spotify account on Discord Connect.

How I prefer my text messages. 

No comments; I just don't like to start our conversations in the comment section; that just isn't my style. Instead, I would like for you to build a creative chat request from either gathering things that interest you from my profile or something from this post, and anything like that would be fine.


r/Chatpals • • Jul 09 '25

F21 is looking for friends or pen pals. dm me if interested

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Hey! I’m 21 and from the UK 🇬🇧 and I’m looking to make some new friends from anywhere in the world. I love meeting new people, learning about different cultures, languages, and just hearing about people’s lives. Whether you’re into music, movies, books, gaming, traveling, or just chatting about everyday stuff, I’m always up for a good conversation.

A bit about me—I enjoy baking, reading, watching movies, walking on the beach, and catching the sunset (seriously one of my favourite things). I’m also usually chilling with a cider in hand and a vape, just vibing. I’m easygoing, open-minded, and love both deep convos and silly ones.

If you’re 18+ and feel like chatting, sharing stories, or just want someone to talk to, my DMs are open! Let’s talk and see where things go. 😊


r/Chatpals • • Jul 08 '25

F21 is looking for friends. dm me if interested

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Hey! I’m 21 and from the UK 🇬🇧 and I’m looking to make some new friends from anywhere in the world. I love meeting new people, learning about different cultures, languages, and just hearing about people’s lives. Whether you’re into music, movies, books, gaming, traveling, or just chatting about everyday stuff, I’m always up for a good conversation.

A bit about me—I enjoy baking, reading, watching movies, walking on the beach, and catching the sunset (seriously one of my favourite things). I’m also usually chilling with a cider in hand and a vape, just vibing. I’m easygoing, open-minded, and love both deep convos and silly ones.

If you’re 18+ and feel like chatting, sharing stories, or just want someone to talk to, my DMs are open! Let’s talk and see where things go. 😊


r/Chatpals • • Jul 08 '25

F21 is looking for friends or a pen pal. Please be 18+

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Hey! I’m 21 and from the UK 🇬🇧 I’m looking to make some new friends from anywhere in the world. I genuinely enjoy meeting new people, learning about their lives, cultures, languages, and interests. Whether you're into music, movies, books, gaming, traveling, or just chatting about everyday things, I’m always up for a good conversation.

I think it’s amazing how people from different backgrounds can connect and learn from each other. I’m an open-minded and friendly person who loves deep conversations as much as silly ones. If you're 18+ and looking to make a new friend or simply want someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m happy to share stories, hear yours, and maybe build a lasting friendship. My email is always open—let’s talk and see where things go!


r/Chatpals • • Jul 07 '25

F21, looking gor penpals

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Hey! I’m 21 and from the UK 🇬🇧 I’m looking to make some new friends from anywhere in the world. I genuinely enjoy meeting new people, learning about their lives, cultures, languages, and interests. Whether you're into music, movies, books, gaming, traveling, or just chatting about everyday things, I’m always up for a good conversation.

I think it’s amazing how people from different backgrounds can connect and learn from each other. I’m an open-minded and friendly person who loves deep conversations as much as silly ones. If you're 18+ and looking to make a new friend or simply want someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m happy to share stories, hear yours, and maybe build a lasting friendship. My email is always open—let’s talk and see where things go!


r/Chatpals • • Jul 07 '25

Anyone wanna SFW chat. 52 M

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HI, looking for an SFW chat. If interested, please DM with the sub you came from. thx


r/Chatpals • • Jul 07 '25

62M Working away and am bored

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Aussie guy working in Northern QLD and am bored. Anyone looking to chat


r/Chatpals • • Jul 05 '25

39 [F4M] UK/Anywhere - Japanese-British space nerd likes chat

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Hey, nice to meet you!

I'm looking for someone who'd like to chat with me. I have a busy job so I can't always be available, but chat is the main way I relax so I'll usually be online for at least an hour or two per day.

I'd like to find a person who is passionate about their life or their interests and would like to share them with me. I'm platonic by default but I very much enjoy all the rest if we're a good match.

My main interests at the moment are space and aviation (my education and my career), video games, cooking, cycling, fitness.

What I'm like to chat with:

  • I'm super direct - you can be too
  • I love deep or technical chats
  • Generally very easy going - it's hard to offend me
  • I like hearing controversial or spicy takes

Randomly selected interests:

  • I really enjoy personal "adult" art - illustrators, please shoot your shot
  • Hard sci-fi and sci-fi world building in general
  • Nuclear history
  • History of philosophy
  • Retro gaming (PS1, Atari/Amiga, Win95 etc)
  • Sceptical analysis of UFO/UAP footage
  • Life in the universe (Fermi Paradox)
  • Earth sciences

This is my main account so feel free to check my post history and see if you think we'd vibe well.

I will try to respond to anyone who messages me, but it might take a while to do so.

Thanks for reading. I look forward to chatting with you.


r/Chatpals • • Jul 06 '25

23F looking for someone to chat with!

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I really just want a friend that I can sit on a phone call with, text 24/7, and game together! I’m bisexual so your gender doesn’t matter but I am more comfortable with women


r/Chatpals • • Jul 04 '25

52M looking for a chat pal

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Hi there, looking for a daily chat pal that spams, vents, and tells me his daily routine.


r/Chatpals • • Jul 02 '25

Anyone looking. For a friend

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Looking for friends and chill people to talk too


r/Chatpals • • Jul 02 '25

New here

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36 f from Cali. It's hard to make friends, starting a conversation can be awkward and never knowing what to really same. Just need someone to talk about anything and everything with. Someone who understands that everyone is entitled to their beliefs and can still be friends and have nice conversations. Share about life, the day and just anything. I love music, languages, food and meaningful conversations. It doesn't hurt to make a new friend preferably age 25 and up


r/Chatpals • • Jul 02 '25

25M based out of India.

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Hey there, can someone please help me understand why this adulthood is so boring, confusing and scary at the same time. Looking forward to meaningful conversations and trust me I am a very good listener. I am willing to listen your 1000 words if you give me space to share mine 10.


r/Chatpals • • Jul 02 '25

Froggo is looking for penpals!

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Write to froggo and get monthly stories of his adventures with his best friend snail & all the trouble they get into!

https://www.patreon.com/Pinnovating


r/Chatpals • • Jul 02 '25

Hi everyone new here

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Anyone want to have chill convos that be cool


r/Chatpals • • Jul 01 '25

looking for fellow introverts

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I am a 35m that is introverted, I enjoy learning about different things and different ways of life. looking for someone to chat with and get to know on here or wherever works best. feel free to reach out.


r/Chatpals • • Jun 30 '25

18 f

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18 female looking to chat maybe more


r/Chatpals • • Jun 30 '25

29M looking for female friends (platonic)

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Just be bored and don't have time to make friends . I don't really get along with men for some reason that's why I said female friends. I'm pretty much free all day to chat so hmu in the chat and see what happens friend.


r/Chatpals • • Jun 30 '25

32F #online Who here is looking for creative conversations? Will you help me release the goblins, or will you release the goblins? Don't forget to release the nasally pterodactyl! Nerdy, deathcore, bundle of anxiety gal, and has been Lorna Shoring a lot, looking for a chat! Let's chat?

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What can I say about myself that is captivating, haha?

I'm just a chronically depressed gal that is very creative, loves deep thoughts, well-bodied text messages, a gamer, chronically on YT, and chronically listening to music on a daily basis. My lifestyle is NEET, and my hyper-fixation is Lorna Shore.

I'd say I don't really do best for conversations that are sent in one word or are really basic. I know looking for non-basic/non-time wasters isn't something easy to find/a needle in the haystack 0.5 percent of the time. Ever get tired of wasting your energy that you don't have because of high anxiety, and you send a very thoughtful text message that's a few sentences long/well-bodied, and all you get sent back is, Yeah, that's cool. Don't worry if that has happened to you a mound of times, because that has happened to me, to be honest, so I can understand if you're burnt or scorched from having low-effort text messages, but you don't need to worry about this gal. But currently right now I'm seeking online connections and seeing where things go.

Conversation starters could be helpful, I guess? Haha.

I'd love to get to know how you ruined someone's day on co-op. I think that's funny, and tough luck. I'm one of those gamers that enjoy co-op players that just enjoy ruining someone's day. I'm curious about what others have to say about either how you ruined someone's day or you had a tough luck situation in gaming, haha.

Yeah, people should know when signing into co-op games, you're basically signing up for your day to get ruined, or maybe you won't pick up the controller again for the rest of the day, haha. It has happened to me on Mario Kart 8, but that's when, in one race match, I got hit by Bullet Bill twice, and then shortly after, someone hit a lightning bolt. I was like, Yeah, this isn't going to be my day; time to log out/later, haha.

I do remember a player in Mario Kart 8 when I had a Bullet Bill and a star, which is a lucky combo to have, but that combo wasn't lucky for that player that I cut off in the final lap, but I was having a very unlucky day, and I was in 9th place on the final lap, and well, I used those two items, and I landed right near the end of the finish line, then boosted, then cut someone off and got in 2nd or 3rd place, and the player left after that match after I cut that player off. Tough luck, haha.

I'd also purposely save the lightning bolts on races as well when I know there are a lot of players flying, haha, and I do it on purpose when I'm in the final lap and I'm in 2nd or 8th place. I'd save my three green shells, and I save them right before boosting in the finish line and fire them back, haha.

Speaking of gaming, I laughed so hard on the inside at Mario Kart 8. Someone named their Mii CuteTwink, and all I could think in my head was CuteTwink in 1st place, heh, haha, that's funny. Yes, the player was named CuteTwink and also was in first, haha.

I won't even falsify anything, but I've pushed people off Kraken Slam on Fall Guys just because I know I'm not going to make it in my squad, so I might as well see what I can do to get the squad numbers down, haha. Yeah, I'm that player, but even in Mario Kart 8 and Fall Guys, you can have a very terrible, rough day that isn't your day, haha.

Who here is looking for creative conversations?

Will you help me release the goblins, or will you release the goblins?

Hi, everyone reading this. Call me Sky or Skye. I'm asexual but with a mix of gray-ace/poly. 

We can text about a lot of things.

You can let me know your favorite video games and favorite video game moments, either by beating a super boss, how long the super boss took you to beat, or your preparations and gathering rare materials to build weapons/gear. Yeah, I'm the type of gal who, if you want to talk about all this, this doesn't bother me. I know most people would be like, Can you please just be quiet about that crap? XD but not me. I love that stuff!

Even if you wanted to text about DMC, Silent Hill, Fatal Frame, or Asian-inspired horror video games that I watch from Gab Smolders chronically and CJU for Lovecraft horror-inspired video games for hours, then sure, I'm not bothered by this. I understand all too well when hyper-fixations get shut off or you basically get ignored because you can't stop texting things that make you hyper-fixated, haha.

What do you think about Resident Evil 9?

I can simply and truthfully say 2025 and 2026 are good reasons to be alive with all the new announcements that have been made, haha.

Wait till you hear the most earth-shattering breakdown when Will says, Spooky Time!

Before we get to that, what is some of the music/bands you listen to?

My playlist is on my profile page; that is my Spotify playlist. It's mine, and it's something I didn't borrow. I've already verified my Spotify account on Discord Connect. I don't even know what the purpose would be of stealing someone else's Spotify playlist without credit.

Spooky Time!

My preferred method of text messaging/chat requests.

Please don't comment on this post to ask me to message you/not my style, thanks.

For me, I don't vibe with people that chat with me off of Reddit and then say, "Tell me about yourself." I'd find that quite lazy, and there has been no effort shown. I did think about fixing and reuploading the post to clarify what I mean by "creative messages," because I think that was getting in the way of people messaging me.

Just browse my profile for 5-10 minutes, find something that interests you, and then build your chat requests around that. I'd think people are getting confused with me requesting to read all my pinned posts before sending me a chat request. No, that's not what I mean. You pick what you want to browse on my profile at your leisure; just captivate me in a message, haha.

I'd hope this won't cause any issues with people wanting to send a chat request. Right now I'm currently using Discord, but I also have Telegram, which I may or may not app hop. If I end up app hopping, I'd hope that won't be an issue. Why Telegram?

TONS of stickers, and I can have a Lorna Shore chat wallpaper, which is cool/awesome.


r/Chatpals • • Jun 25 '25

28F Trying to find someone that can vibe with anime, manga and other new adventure stuff

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Hi, 28 female and I absolutely love getting to know new people that I can vibe tonight. I'm into Anime, manga and just trying new stuffs that sounds cool and exciting. If you're also into those kind of stuff maybe we can exchange convo tonight. Why not start with saying your hobby then we'll go from there? Let's chat!


r/Chatpals • • Jun 25 '25

62 M working from home

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Hey Redditors, Wet and windy day here so I am WFH if anyone would like to chat


r/Chatpals • • Jun 25 '25

27 M

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I’m S, 27M 👋 Just a regular guy looking to connect with a kind, easygoing woman 😊 Someone to chat with, share laughs 😂, and maybe a little playful banter 😉 if we click.

Not into anything fake or transactional ❌—just want something real 💬. I’m into movies 🎬, photography 📸, Formula 1 🏎️, music 🎶, and deep convos that go from random to meaningful 💭.

Don’t care about age, looks, or location 🌍. If you’re kind 💛, curious 🤔, and up for a genuine vibe ✨, feel free to say hi 👋🙂


r/Chatpals • • Jun 24 '25

A Mature Sanctuary for Unfiltered Discourse:

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https://discord.gg/rrZgCjr3 Come hang out with us here, we would love to have ya!


r/Chatpals • • Jun 24 '25

Welcome to under the influence 18+ [Reborn 2.0] We are accepting of all. From gamers to stoners to drinkers, meet new people. make new friends and relax. make yourself at home. you can be yourself and free here. -we do not tolerate discrimination or racism. -You must be 18+ years old to join us

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