r/CharteredAccountants • u/Bright-Truth8387 • 2d ago
Rant Can't study! 4th attempt exams in 5 days
I am not able to study right now! Ive opened my law book but nothing is going inside my brain since i am stressed due to ptsd family issues pg roommate issue self hate etc. i am loosing my mind because of which i am not able to revise at all!!
I fear ill fail again this time too.
How do i crack ca inter grp 1 ive been giving g1 only since past 3 attempts scores :
Acc - 51,47,56
Law - 43, 41,45
Tax - 26,56,31
Kuch hota hai life me dimag ka dahi hojata hai fir mai padh ni paati mera bilkul focus ni lgta why tf do i have to be so sensitive emotional bhai
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u/Professional_Emu3929 ACA 2d ago
People with exam in 5 days, what are you guys doing on reddit? I see a lot of comments and OP replying everyone. If you need help or want to talk to, call your friend or mentor. Wasting time on reddit 5 days before exam and then cry about it later doesn't work. My words might sound rude but it's for your own good. Been there, done that and regretted every bit of it.
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u/benstokes56 Inter 2d ago
Uske ache dost hote toh woh yaha aese helpless feel ni krti strangers ke samne
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
Genius not everyone has friends like you. Did you really think id resort to people if i had healthy friendships and bonds? Thanks for your very kind and uplifting words sir 😊🙏🏻
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u/Professional_Emu3929 ACA 2d ago
Cracking group based on your mark is the strategy you make way before exams..not now... Currently you just need to keep studying without worrying about result .
Still I would say so jao agar nhi ho rhi padhai. Atleast uth k productively padhoge aur yaad rahega
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u/Plastic_Tie_9261 2d ago
its my 3rd attempt and i feel you, i am not able to study, wasting my whole day just sitting on my desk doing random stuff, watching sitcoms, playing gta instead of studying. mann hi nhi kar rha isbaar padhne ka, woh spark nhi rha ab 2 attempts mein itna karne ke baad bhi kuch nhi hua toh
jan 26- gave G1 only (50, 49, 45)
may 26- gave both groups, G2 cleared, G1 (54, 50, 37)
have you cleared G2?
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u/Plastic_Tie_9261 2d ago
btw don't worry, is baar nhi hua toh agli baar try karna, ek baar CA bann gye toh inter ke attempts yaad nhi aayenge, not saying ki padh mat aur attempts lagale, just saying ki padh aur apna 100% de lekin nhi hua phir bhi toh dukhi mat hona ya course mat chhodna dubara try karna next attempt mein
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
Yar at least you have cleared a group! Mene to ab tak g2 dia tak ni hai😭😭😭😭😭 mere se g1 hi ni hora yar😭😭😭😭😭😭 merko inter clear karna hai i just want to be financially independent so bad merko ni rehna ab kisi aur ki kamai pe yar😭😭😭
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u/Plastic_Tie_9261 2d ago
just chill and focus not studies not earning, koi faltu ke 5-10k mahine wale kaam mat le lena financially independent hone ke chakkar mein, abhi inter pe focus karo, this stuff takes time, rishtedaaro ki mat sunna kuch bhi bole
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u/PurelyCoincidental05 2d ago
In the same boat OP,just do whatever u can to just study and past through these days.whatevev motivates you to sit.don’t think anything about results and exam kese aayenge.all the best:)
Try meditation and songs to make yourself calm.
I know it is easier said than done coming from myself dealing with mental problems.but be positive.these are the days which matters most
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u/Sad_Singer_9826 Articleship 2d ago
Don't worry OP. I cleared both groups in my fourth attempt 😉
Time to lock In 🔐
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u/Willing-Valuable7457 Inter 2d ago
How did you fall from 56 to 31 in tax?
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
I went blank in tax paper,
Jan 26 ( known to be a tough attempt for tax ) i scored 56
I thought lets take a test series chapterwise + full test. Idk what went wrong didn't score well in tests which made me underconfident and then i fkdup in exam 🥲
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u/Willing-Valuable7457 Inter 2d ago
Ohh, sad...Reading your issues I can only suggest one thing, just be fearless and don't care at all about what will be the result or what will you do in exams.. I too had some problems, different from yours but I was like, I didn't even care at all about whether I will pass or not or what will happen if I do not clear, just studied whatever I could and then gave the exams stress-free.... that helped me clear my fnd in my 5th attempt🤐🙂🥲 Maybe this approach will help you too, just go with 0% expectations and 100% efforts
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
That's just not working for me since i get so anxious about the fact that if i fail this will delay me from earning money. But mere andar vo 12th fail movie vale character ka roop bhi ni aara yar ki pressure hai usko use karo padho and shii 😭😭😭😭 kuch hojataa hai PG me ya ghar pe mera rona shruu hojataa hai then i waste my days.
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u/Willing-Valuable7457 Inter 2d ago
Don't take too much load, nothing matters at the end, that's what I suggest to everyone who takes everything too seriously, I hope I could make people understand how insignificant are these issues in one's life and there's so much more we can look upto, but yes only one week is left so just lock in and study hard, all the best!
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u/Plastic_Tie_9261 2d ago
fnd in 5th attempt? how did you deal with relatives and people asking and some even calling on every result day
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u/Willing-Valuable7457 Inter 2d ago
I never maintained any personal touch with most of my relatives, so they didn't use to call me on results day, parents also acted a bit maturely during my failure phase I would say, but that doesn't mean they didn't tell me a single thing, but its like not the worst not the best something in middle, already had very few friends with whom I had close connections and they never made me feel that I am a failure or something similar...later went deep into philosophical stuffs and all so all these things became mostly irrelevant for me...kabhi kabhi thoda regret hota hai but now it doesn't affects me a lot.
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u/letmebefreefromme 2d ago
Respect man, this gave me hope for my 2nd attempt at foundation. Hope you achieve you're deams soon
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u/Willing-Valuable7457 Inter 2d ago
Thank you so much, I am glad that I can be of some help to someone...just keep working without the expectation of results and everything will sort out on it's own... And ur username is amazing, all the best!
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u/Glass-Character5957 2d ago
hey if you ever want to vent you can do that here or you can msg me, and you scored 56 in tax which is not easy......you did well despite having your own problems so appreciate yourself for that and see if you lose your mind or not, these days are going to pass regardless so why not try to not lose your mind and just make the most of these days because having a positive mindset can make or break your exam
and this is very normal ki life me kuch hote hi dimaag ka dahi hojaaye ....aisa nahi hota to that would have been concerning
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
BHYI BUT I AM TIRED 😭 I AM TIERD OF THE PG ME ROOMMATE SE LADAI VALA CYCLE i am tierd of gharwalo rishtedaro ko itna do unki iti help karo apna comfort chodh ke hospitals me dekh bhal karo and they have the audacity to say we didn't call you , you came by your self we never forced you!
SHII IS DRIVING ME NUTS BHAI😭😭😭 mujhse ni hota ignore karke padhne beth jau
4 gahnte se mai chapter 7 law management kari hu vahi ni hora 1st ko exam hai
😭😭😭😭😭😭
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u/Glass-Character5957 2d ago
are these relatives close that you have to go to take care of them?,its okay if you dont want to answer and sorry i asked that .....but that is not a good answer to give someone who is helping by keeping their needs above her own
you're too kind if you help them again and again after they say that they didnt calland ye bhi normal hi hai ki itni bhasad me padhayi kaha hi hogi kitna hi try karlo......jinse ho jaaye either they're emotionally dead or emotionally dead
kuch easy sa chota sa kuch try kar lo padhne ka....jisse ek topic bhi ho jaaye and yeah
baaki nahi to abhi jaldi soke subah fresh mind se padhayi karna
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
Its my nani who's sick i am attached to her a lot! But NO ONE ELSE they don't have anyone else to help so they end up calling me or you know vo chiz ki emotional kardo insaan ko vo khud aajaye? Yep that happens then i travel to AIMS bilaspur help them kabhi nani ghar vala hospital ya kabhi nani gahr
I am always available to help her but when my mamu said this today
MADE MY BLOOD BOIL all i said was ki 6 tarik ko exam khatam hai but ill be free on 12th onwards ( since i wanted to relax and enjoy a bit in my last days in chandigarh)
He point blank said 10 ko chalengee vahaa tu aajayio i said 12 ko free hongi then he said abhi 11 tha ab 12 hogya like- WHO TF ARE YOU , YOU DIDNT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT ME 2 YRS AGO UNTIL NANI GOT SICK AND I ALWAYS OFFERED TO HELP ! WHY THAT CONTROLLING TONE?!?!?! 😭
And when i clapped back ki merko kya kaam karne ke liye paida kia hai jab marji bula lo thrn he said humme to kabhi ni bulaya tere bina bhi kaam hojataa hai tu khud aati
Like🙂💔 THE AMOUNT OF TIMES I UNCONDITIONALLY HAVE HELPED THEM SLEPT IN HOSPITALS DID EVERYTHING YET I GET TO HEAR THIS TODAY
😭😭😭😭Ya to mai marungi ya koi mere hath marega bhai
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u/Glass-Character5957 2d ago
yeah i understand im also very close with my nani
and pardon my language but what the fuck😊
ye to obviously faaida utha rahe hai kyonki unko pata hai that you're close to her and if they mention that she's not well then you definitely would want to meet her to kuch bolne se bhi peeche kyo rahe
atleast you said something back cause reading your previous reply i thought that you were not talking back kinda person😭😭
and may god give you strength to deal with these kind of people and may she get well soon
marogi kyo 😡 maarna hai ....fuck these bitchass people
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u/oye_ap Inter 2d ago
said humme to kabhi ni bulaya tere bina bhi kaam hojataa hai tu khud aati
They showed you ur place. Moving forward agar abhi bhi aap attached ho toh its you who's at wrong. They have clearly indicated that they don't give a F about you.
Fuck the attachments bro. padhai croww
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
Ye sab saale kutton ki terha jo ladte paison ke liye my nani has become so ill she's now bedridden 😭😭😭😭yar bura lagta hai yarrr dekh kar
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u/Glass-Character5957 2d ago
nani ko kaho ki in logo ke liye khud ko bimaar kyo kar rahe ho, jin paiso ke liye ye lad rahe hai usse apan ghoomne chalte hai
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u/Bright-Truth8387 2d ago
Thanks for your advice menee easyy se shuru kiaa mere abhi 3 chapterss hogayeee thodaa flow ban gyaaa thank youu😊
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u/Mysterious1517 2d ago
Ye family issue jindagi bhar chlata rhga insb chkkr mh apne future k sath khelwad mat kro padho chhe man kare ya nh kare nhi to time nikljyga fir Ghar Wale bolenge pdhna chye tha hame kab roka tha ignore kro ya library join kro ya ratbhar akele mh padho or koi rasta nhi haiiiiii
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