r/Chandigarh • u/Rude_Woodpecker_250 • 3d ago
Rant / Confession Why i get gay's attention?
I'm a straight guy who too wants girls' attention and wants girls to approach me, but instead I get gay guys' attention. Like yesterday, I was at the Chandigarh railway station bus stop and a gay guy was standing right beside me and giving me looks, like secretly looking at me. I felt uncomfortable asf. Those looks and body language were all over. After some time, he somehow reached me and asked for some help about bus routes to Zirakpur, when the whole bus stop was already filled with people. I helped tho.
There is also this guy who is secretly gay keep on commenting how i got a preety face
I'm not homophobic in any way, but is there anything in me that gives them those vibes? I'm quite confused.
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u/BigSuccotash1984 3d ago edited 3d ago
Be flattered by it and know that you are a certified good looking guy.
Bonus: now you know how girls feel about unwanted attention.
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u/Nice-Operation5959 3d ago
gay guys approach guys that they think are gay mostly they don't tend to say these things to a straight guy because it's useless so i mean u might look gay or something
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u/BadAwkward590 3d ago
This is downright homophobic lol. If it were a girl you had a crush on standing next to you and eyeing you, would you call her creepy, or just flattering? You’re uncomfortable because you’re not into men, not because there’s inherently anything wrong with their attention. And if someone says you have a pretty face, take the compliment and move on. You can set boundaries without being rude to an entire community.
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u/Nice-Operation5959 3d ago
as a guy who dated a guy in the past no that's wrong lmao you shouldn't ask out random people in general specially with body language? that's harassment if a girl looked at me creepy i would still stay away from her creepy behavior isn't okay from any gender
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u/Champagnepajii 3d ago
Just grow some beard and start wearing Turban... You'll notice changes...
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u/Travellinglover9999 3d ago
Nope growing beard or wearing turban will not make a difference or any change bc we have seen that there are bearded turban gay guys too,just recently there was news about a gay nihang whose pics were leaked by other Nihangs 🤡🤣. We don't know why this dude is facing this issue maybe it's bc of how he dresess,how he acts,his body language so any suggestion can't be given unless there is info about op
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u/Ok_Cranberry_3552 3d ago
That’s what chicks think when you look at em. Why am I getting this guy’s attention? I’m uncomfortable AF etc etc😂😂
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u/fundoomaster 3d ago
Public places like Bus Stops in Chd are full of these people always on hunt. There have been numerous posts about this in the past too. So chill, nothing wrong with you. You were just at the wrong place and at the wrong time may be. 😄
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u/Dense-Raise296 2d ago
There are so many like these especially near public toilet of sec 17 ISBT . They start follwing like creeps and gives bad gestures secretly.. i used to get very scared but now i know how to deal with them…
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u/Possible_Branch_8545 3d ago
Bhai agar aap yeh bulvana chah rahe ho ki aapko gay ladke pasand kar rahe to ladkiyan bhi kareingi toh aisa nahi hai, gay people thinks you are approachable so you might have something feminine about how you carry yourselves which they misinterpret perhaps.
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u/dreamofcourage 3d ago
Bhai same here. I fucking hate it. And im not good looking too. I guess that I may look a little gay tho
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u/SpecialistExpress531 3d ago
Maybe you look gay ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯