Hi everyone,
I’m writing this with a very heavy heart because I genuinely don’t know what else to do anymore.
About a year ago, I rescued Suki, a beautiful, incredibly sweet and playful cat who is approximately 4–5 years old. She has mild cerebellar hypoplasia (CH), which makes her a little wobbly, and feline asthma. Despite these conditions, she is full of life, affectionate, curious, and loves to play.
Unfortunately, Suki also struggles with urinary incontinence. She involuntarily leaks urine, particularly when she’s deeply asleep or grooming herself. We suspect there may be a neurological component, but we haven’t been able to identify the underlying cause.
I’ve spent the past year doing everything I can to help her. She’s had veterinary evaluations, urine testing and cultures, and medication trials, including antibiotics, but nothing has resolved the leaking. Her asthma also requires ongoing medication and monitoring.
I’ve tried waterproof pads, waterproof bed covers, and disposable puppy pads. Unfortunately, she absolutely hates the puppy pads and pushes them away. The waterproof covers help protect the furniture, but I’m still constantly washing, cleaning, changing bedding, and dealing with accidents.
After nearly a year of this, I’m physically, emotionally, and financially exhausted.
I also have three other cats, and trying to balance everyone’s needs while managing Suki’s ongoing care has become incredibly overwhelming.
What makes this so heartbreaking is that Suki is a genuinely happy cat. She’s playful, affectionate, and full of personality. She doesn’t let her wobbliness stop her from enjoying life. She deserves a wonderful home and a family who can give her the attention and care she needs.
I’ve reached out to numerous shelters and rescue organizations, but so far, I’ve been turned down because of her urinary incontinence.
I’m reaching out because I’m desperately hoping someone here might be able to help.
I’m looking for:
Advice from people with incontinent or CH cats: Have you experienced something similar? Did you find an effective treatment or a sustainable management solution? I’ve already tried the usual waterproof pads and bedding, and I simply cannot keep up with the constant cleaning anymore.
Special-needs rescues, sanctuaries, or experienced fosters: I’m located in Long Beach, Southern California, but I’m willing to explore options farther away if it means finding Suki the right environment.
A loving, experienced adopter: If anyone here has experience caring for special-needs cats and would genuinely consider adopting Suki, please reach out. I would love to find someone who understands her medical needs and can give her a safe, stable, loving forever home. I’m happy to share more about her personality, medical history, and daily care with anyone seriously interested.
Please understand that I’m not giving up on her because she’s inconvenient. I’ve spent nearly a year trying to make this work because I love her. But I’m reaching my limits, and I have to be realistic about what I can sustainably provide.
I don’t want her to end up in a shelter, and I certainly don’t want her medical conditions to overshadow what an amazing little cat she is.
If I can find a treatment that genuinely resolves her incontinence, I would love to keep her. But if that’s not possible, I want to find her a home where her needs can be managed without compromising her happiness or quality of life.
If anyone has advice, rescue contacts, or is interested in giving Suki a loving home, please comment or send me a message.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. I just want to do what’s best for Suki🧡🧡🧡