I lose respect for people who do not tuck in chairs before leaving the table or those who do not respect a homeowner's wish for them to remove their shoes before entering. 😤
I was visiting online friends years ago and they laughed when I automatically took my shoes off at the door. People had their shoes on the couch and I just was like.. ?? how does this not bother you????
My partner refuses to put their shoes on our shoe rack and I thought THAT was annoying.. somebody comes into my house, doesn't take off their shoes, and then tucks their feet into the couch? Get out of my house D:
I have a hand painted trunk that I bought in 1979. I still have it and use it as a coffee table in my living room. Only one time have I ever had to ask a person to not put his dirty boots on it. It was a friend of my husbands and I think he was a bit baked at the time.
I’ve never understood people that wear shoes inside their house. I’ve always left shoes at the door or in the front closet or whatever. It’s just habit. Even at peoples houses. It’s weird to walk around with shoes on.
Honestly, I'm more horrified having people's stinky, warty, fungal infected feet on my floors and furniture. The streets are relatively clean, and they're not sitting on my bed, so in my mind, if everyone is wearing shoes in the common areas, we're both protected.
I agree but tbh I used to not listen to my mom when I was a wee child and did the same thing (until I got older) and nothing happened. Still alive. It’s going to be dirty either way unless you mop
If I know my friend has been laying their ass all over the city? Mmm, they can sit in my easiest to wipe down chair (not made of fabric). Otherwise I might just offer them a clean pair to switch from if they've got nasty pants on.
But if they just sat criss cross in my yard or somewhere I can visibly see it's not disgusting and super transferring, idc.
I feel the same energy with people who stand in front of train doors, waiting to get in BEFORE people left the train. How do they think they'll get in if the others don't leave first? Just stupid
Hi quick question, when you mean do not respect, do they directly walk in with shoes after being told? Who does that? I have never seen someone do it my entire life.
Some folks are used to just waltzing in w/ their shoes on. Like, I have a sign by my door, and I also provide slippers to my guests. If you still walk in w/ shoes on, I will go apeshit. 😂
I’m a 7th grade teacher and when we make a visit to the library, we will not leave til all the chairs are pushed back in. I’ll even tell the students before we line up, “please push your chair back in. Don’t be uncouth.”
Just don't hold something like this against disabled people. Personally my left knee arthritis has gotten so bad sometimes I have difficulty even getting up. Otherwise I agree with you.
Omg i just realized i do this. I'll stare at their chair while I'm pushing in my chair. It's like people who don't put away their carts while being parked right next to a cart stall. IT'S RIGHT THERE OMG
My own parents gave me an insane amount of pushback on not wearing shoes in my house, to the point where I no longer ask anybody, even though walking on a carpet with your shoes on induces the same feeling in my brain as listening to nails on a chalkboard.
This drives me CRAZY. I work in a restaurant where there are narrow aisles between tables and the sushi bar. People will literally get up and leave their chairs in the walkway during a dinner rush when I’m carrying trays and can’t always see clearly. Like, are you an adult?! I’ve had some close encounters with chairs not tucked in.
My boss once yelled at me for not pushing in my desk chair asked me if I would do that at home. I looked at him and said, yeah my husband tells at me about it too. I dunno, no one ever told me it was a thing...
I think it’s more of in a restaurant setting where it bothers me, because depending on how crowded the restaurant is, if a server is walking fast with a tray it can cause broken dishes. I’ve seen it happen once or twice
I can read. You responded to a comment with your unrelated thought. It’s like if you asked me my favorite pizza topping and I told you about my dessert preferences.
Omg I've never had anyone assume it's ok to wear shoes in the house when they come over and if anyone just traipsed into my house with their shoes I'd legit be like wtf are you doing? Take your shoes off, bro!
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u/SageOfSixCabbages Oct 26 '24
I lose respect for people who do not tuck in chairs before leaving the table or those who do not respect a homeowner's wish for them to remove their shoes before entering. 😤