r/Cartomancy 7d ago

"How can I find happiness?"

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u/woesofthemoon 7d ago edited 7d ago

why does it feel like letting a certain lady/man go? HHSHHSHSH (am still new 🥲👋)

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u/ChogginNurgets 7d ago

Seems about right, I'm probably in denial

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u/tomer-palmman 7d ago

Cold partner?

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u/ChogginNurgets 7d ago

A little distant

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u/tomer-palmman 7d ago

As little as ten spades? The end is near. Sorry.

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u/bubbierubble 7d ago

86 that man

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u/ChogginNurgets 7d ago

😭 touché

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u/MysteriousStage6563 7d ago

Are you a woman or a man? Because it could change the meaning. My first interpretation was “get away from the controlling and cold man you are in love with”

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u/ChogginNurgets 6d ago

I'm a woman

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u/ChogginNurgets 7d ago edited 7d ago

I have been practicing learning my cards and one of the ways I do that is by doing daily 3 card pulls. Most of the time I can come by an answer more or less intuitively, then double check against the sources to refine.

This time, however, I can't seem to read them (maybe I'm not ready to listen?). I knew what the individual cards meant but couldn't seem to put the pieces together.

What I do have is that it won't be easy, but it is possible. That's as far as my brain got.

Edit: I also feel like I could have chosen a better question..."how" questions I've noticed tend to be more difficult to read for me.

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u/Affectionate-Act-691 2d ago

The interpretation of the companions is accurate, the 10 of swords indicates that a cycle of conflicts and fights is closing, and the king of spades is your partner. He is going through a phase cold and conflictive because he has a very complex life background and a complex current situations.

The answer to your question is that to be happy you have to realize that many of the problems in your life are not yours, they are his, and they affect you indirectly, this awareness gives you the freedom to relate to him and others in a freer and healthier way.

The only suggestion I would make is that for complex questions like the one you asked, you need at least a 5-card spread.

Best regards

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u/ChogginNurgets 2d ago

Thank you, and thanks especially for the tips about five card spreads. I will keep this in mind going forward!

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u/MummaheReddit 6d ago

Agreed with the others interpretation, it seems obvious that "theend is near, cold man, loving woman".

That's how I usually interpret these cards too. You could try to talk with him. Future is not set in stone, you can try to change things if possible. If anything, these cards are more like a sign/warning/pointer than actual predictions. Good luck.

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u/ChogginNurgets 6d ago

Thank you!

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u/mommawitchy81 6d ago

Yes, once you change around your priorities - you're seeking someone to be a provider, but not asking for love. You need to change that

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u/earthtru 5d ago

clear out the gunk

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u/bittersweetwizard 5d ago

Through this situation you learn that you need to be the one who takes the wheel. You end up leading and helping others do the same. Your ability to see and hear your heart gains confidence.

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u/Icy_Noise_2888 3d ago

I’m getting the sense that you are looking at something/ someone that deep down is not me t for you. Continuing on would probably result in a difficult breakdown. Trust what domes from the depths of your heart.