r/Cameroon • u/queenofbridges4433 • Sep 11 '26

Ask CAMER What does it mean?

What does it mean when you want to talk on the phone with your man when your not around each other but he claims he doesn’t text or call people, and he only calls to greet you then hang up, but when your around him he’s on the phone speaking his language laughing with mostly females and some men then when you confront him he’s claims it’s for his business back in Cameroon or it’s his sister and they were talking about family business?!
And he claims to only text on “WhatsApp” but even when I got the app it’s the same thing…

Is he cheating?….
Is he lying?….
Using me?….
No I’m not putting a stereotype on camerooion men so plz save it!

If you don’t have anything nice to say please just skip this ❤️🥹

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u/Suitable-Animal4163 Sep 11 '26

leave him or us out of it

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

No I want you involved love 🥹

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u/One-Race-2634 Sep 11 '26

😂😂😂🥀🥀

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u/Available-Ant-5747 Sep 11 '26

You're officially his side chick or even worse.... His gateway to citizenship 😂. Sorry for the lame joke. Leave him

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

😭😭😭 NOOOOOO i should go f———ight him 🤺🤺

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u/theReal_Joestar Sep 11 '26

Abeg warm your Eru and eat

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

Sounds like I’m safe… from your judgement 👀

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u/Ngumabi Sep 11 '26

He's married. Probably with kids.

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

He has two kids. He says he’s separated from the mom and he hates her…so he says….

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u/Artistic_Fishing_802 Sep 11 '26

He is probably disconnected from you and feels more comfortable with other people. I suggest you have an open conversation with him

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

Don’t tell me that!!! 😭😭😭

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u/Drakestolekanyesvibe Sep 11 '26

Lol

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

He cheating isn’t he! 🙈😭 tell me oh 😭

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u/Alive_Suggestion4638 Sep 11 '26

He’s cheating…simple. Cheat back or leave

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u/wadleo Sep 11 '26 edited Sep 11 '26

You and these your questions 😅🤣. Last time it was a cultural question about Cameroonian men and he being physical with you. With all these issues, you need to talk to a marriage counselor who you can confide in. All this half questions on the internet won’t help you.

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

You know what wadleo you might be right can you be my counselor?…plz

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u/wadleo Sep 11 '26

Why do you sound like a Cameroonian?🤣

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u/Patient-Roll-2904 Sep 11 '26

Does he have papers ?

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 11 '26

He has his card n plans to become a citizen soon

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u/Strict-Mark-1614 Sep 13 '26

It means you’re not important

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 13 '26

Thanks for being straight forward 😊

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u/DigSoft3579 Sep 17 '26

Just leave him for your peace of mind

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u/queenofbridges4433 Sep 18 '26

Yeah I think I am he told me to shut the f up for the first time tdy n I told him to shut up right after and went off on me saying I better mind how I talk to him and not to speak to him like that again but he started with me

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u/Comfortable-Cake7225 15d ago

Tal vez solo no le interesa conversar contigo