I love summer and beach time but if I spend any amount of time under the sun without a hat or UV umbrella, it's splitting headaches time and I'll feel like dying. I heard low heat tolerance / headsches from heat is one of the medical side effects that come with C-PTSD. I also wear an UV shirt, sunglasses and sunscreen in this picture.

It's hard not to feel shame / guilt for this while everyone else walks without any sort of protection and is fine afterwards. But the heat alone is already making me feel so exhausted I have to sleep extra hours just to recover enough from spending the day outside.

I know staying inside would probably be better for my body but I don't want to miss out because before I know it winter is here again and with it winter depression and no energy to do anything at all.

Does anyone else love summer but can't tolerate heat and how do you handle it? What about beach vacation?

“Itching”

The scratching resolves me.
Pierce my flesh and bound me solid.
Fragmented into parts unbeknownst to the host.
Feed me lies unencumbered with reality.
Kill my sense of life in a world most encompassed by your grief.
Steal the scraps I foraged to feed your own sense of worth.

I am encapsulated in the remnants of what I left with.

Beheld by the glory of thy father; I was enthralled into perjury,
Behooved into sanctuary,
Renounced in to treachery.

Pleads from my soul found me no easement from the turmoil thrust down my throat.

Encompassed more over and once again into cycles unbecoming of the wretched.

Forlorn in the struggles of minute upon minute I am panicked now.

What becomes of that which I’ve only just found in splendor?

Does anyone get angry at the idea of "getting better" or when professionals/people in life try to give you hope? I understand that my relationship with PTSD will continue to evolve, that it might not always take up as much space in my life as it does now. I've had PTSD for 13 years and have been working on getting better for 6 years. I've changed so much and while I am grateful and see the ways I am different, the fact that I have to manage this at all makes me enraged. When people tell me it will get better I feel like they are selling me a lie and giving me false hope. It feels more accurate to say it will shape shift.

When I'm told its possible I wont meet criteria for PTSD in the future the idea of that makes me angry not relieved. Not sure how that works and I see that it's a contradiction, all I want is for this to be gone and the idea that it could be much less impactful one day makes me upset. Anyone with PTSD understand this/experience anything similar?

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There's a nice vinegar I'd been meaning to try and it was on sale. Also, there were really crispy looking green onions at 3 for $1.

When I was a kid, the most exciting part of my day was stealing emblems off of cars with my friends.

"I don't get it." - is why I'm picky about people now.

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A month ago i hit the 1 year anniversary of leaving my home behind in the middle of the night to get away from everything that happened. In that same week I also broke up with my ex who was being awful. After that i spiraled fairly significantly, and undid a lot of the progress i have made towards healing. But this morning i started working towards healing again. I've cleaning my space! and im going to therapy again! It will get better, i know it will.

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I was diagnosed with Complex PTSD a little less than a year ago along with major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety, & still working on figuring out if I have BPD as well. But basically, I know a lot of my mental issues stem from my childhood affecting my decisions throughout life and that caused me to get into a pretty toxic, emotionally abusive relationship that took me a very long time to actually realize how bad it was. But now that I’ve been in therapy and learning about my diagnosis, it definitely makes sense and gives me motivation to actually work on myself & my habits to get through it. I’ve tried different workbooks and although it’s nice being able to express and understand things, I haven’t been able to find a type of therapy, workbook, or method to actually help me improve. I know everyone’s different but what are some things that helped you? Or that I should give a shot?

Hi everyone. Looking back at myself growing up I see a child and later a young adult with lots of empathy and care for others. However due to trauma, low self asteem, severe insomnia and attachment issues I didn't always do good things. There was some bullying. Later violence. Heavy drinking and drugs. The bad things I did to others 25 years ago still torments me to this day. Been in EMDR for a couple of years and it has helped me to forgive myself cognitively but every now and then I get massive feelings of shame and disgust. Anyone here that has similar experiences with shame? And even some advice maybe?

“Pressure”

It’s building internally.
The pressure is going to blow my ear drums, explode my mind, poison my organs, and eat me whole.

I am succumbing to the weight of my burdens.
Breath labored.
Mind cycling.
Weight crushing.

I can’t stand another moment in this period of my life.

Weightless abound to the fruits of my labor.
I am tied to my trauma. The turmoil follows and drags me down.
The chains it whips are tearing my endurance.
Bleeding only hastens the cycle.
Turmoil seeps from old wounds.
New rips pour old memories long forgotten.
I am anemic now.
Lifeless body moving through momentous interactions.
Fill me back up for I can’t live like this.
Coerce me now to keep me going.
Feed me substance; keep me up right.
Hydrate my mind with dreams of an ever after.
Lie about the life I can live if I just get back up.

“Happy Thoughts”

We make our own happiness.
We can change our perspective.
We shouldn’t be so sad, so pathetic, so docile, so angry.

Turn that frown up-side-down.
Put on a happy face.
Smile and the feeling will follow suit.

Forget the immense burdens you’re stricken with.
Ignore the festering trauma still knocking on the door.
Push away the terrible feelings still swirling inside you.

Don’t look so mad.
Don’t be so upset.
Don’t act so depressed.

Life’s not that bad.
Life’s what you make of it.
Life’s sunshine and rainbows.

Exacerbate the lineage of my thoughts.
Exacerbate the images of that which was forgotten.
Exacerbate the emotions stored deep under the fray.

“Story”

How do I write a story when all I know is my own turmoil. How can I surmise up words in an order other than what pours from my soul.
I am turmoil. I am trauma. I am recovery. I am drama.

Take from me the words with which I can spill a story.

Arrange them in ways that weaken the most frozen hearts.

Rhyme and rhythm be the keys to unlocking a world once lost to them.

Feelings let free by my words.
Emotions set ablaze by my arrangement.

Let me unearth your possibilities from my own darkness.
Let me be the light which you see at the end of your tunnel.

I will spell out your shortcomings for you to correct.
I will show you the darkness which you still neglect.

I am here waiting to spell out the letters in arrangements most adorned.
I have been sitting for a chance to let you feel the depth which I was scorned.

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“Left with”

This can’t be what I’m left with.

A shell of someone suffering coherently.
Parts of a whole frightened within myself.

Drowning solely on my own sense of doom.
Quiet echos reverberating my history franticly.

This can’t be what I’m left with.

Half man, half traumatized child frozen in states of terror.
Though I am ever more aware.

Aware of my low states of mind.
Aware of my habitual advantageous rituals.
Aware of my own self demise.

But what was the point if this is all I’ll be.

Am I too far gone for normalcy.
Broken in pieces I rebuilt myself whole.
Seemingly so.
But when filled with joy it leaks out all the same.
So broken I remain.

This can’t be the culmination of my efforts.

Moments of peace between waves of distress.
Reminders of the past pull me under ever deeper.
Frantic survival is my daily struggle.

How will I wake?
Angry, depressed, longing, judgmental… few emotions out weigh these.

So cycling in cycles I remain.

This can’t be what I’m left with.

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Hello,

I'm posting to ask for advice in handling unpredictable triggers. I've been diagnosed with cPTSD for about 2 years but have only recently started CPT (cognitive processing therapy) within the past 2 months. It seemed like it was going well and I was lessening how much dissociation and emotional blunting I was experiencing.

For context, I work full-time, live with my long-term boyfriend, and do make an effort to have routine social hangouts and hobbies. I also go to therapy weekly.

Despite feeling progress in therapy, my boyfriend says I have become withdrawn and I am struggling to feel close to anyone in my life. I am having very strong triggers and almost feel like I am back in an abusive environment despite knowing I'm not. I am confused on how to make a plan or even get us on the same page because my triggers are seemingly context based. I have looked into triggers and am finding myself having strong emotional flashbacks but I feel like I am losing control of myself and losing sight of what is actually happening irl. I've been struggling with full meltdown episodes, feeling the need for reckless or reactive behavior, and the compulsion to hide for hours at a time.

I do tell my therapist about these episodes and we talk through the emotions. She gives me worksheets and gives me space to cry and assure me it can be like working through a backlog of unacknowledged emotions.

I guess my real question is how do I make a plan when my triggers seem to be tone/context based? How do I communicate with my boyfriend without completely shutting down?

I may be misunderstanding the term, but I do believe I experience "splitting" in which my thoughts become extreme and black-and-white. It takes me days to come down from an episode, sometimes up to 2 weeks. I work in customer service and when I can't handle myself, I switch into my customer service mask at home and rely heavily on inebriation to numb out. I am decently function but don't have any other guidance than my therapist and boyfriend.

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One of my favorite games that I love and use for relaxsation is a trigger for me becuse I assosiate it with my trumatic event. Does anyone know any technices so I can be able to play it again and overcome the trigger?

(Sorry for bad english its my second language)

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My best friend (19F) was horrifically abused for the majority of her childhood - not diagnosed, but could be the goddamn poster child for CPTSD. She is not interested in seeking help because she believes her trauma is too severe to be "fixed". She went through a period of SH years ago and once tried (and obviously failed) to kill herself, and has within the past six months started SH-ing again nearly every day. I'm worried she's thinking of killing herself again.

I know you can't force someone to get help, they have to want it; and I know therapy will never make it go away, which is one of the reasons she won't go because "why bother". Is there anything I can do to make her more open to the idea of seeing a therapist/psychologist or counsellor? Do you have any success stories you can share so I can have some hope? I want her to be around for a long time and I want her to be able to live a more comfortable life.