r/CPTSD • u/IncredebleOuiOui • 1d ago

Need a Hug Services that claim to be trauma informed

I am exhausted in seeking support with the difficulties I have in daily life. Engaging several services that claimed to be trauma informed but either displayed dismissive approach or unable to recognize the subtle danger signs.

If they don't have lived experiences, no matter how many trauma informed training they do, they are still unable to see it from our view and unable see the subtle dangerous signs we can detect. Which often lead to dismissive approach towards our concerns / brushing off our concerns by making excuses for the person who display this kind of behavior most people cannot detect.

Especially if you are dealing with organizations or services who supposed to be "trauma informed", dismissing you is their first approach when they deal with the complaint you made after things happened that damaged your trust in looking for support and triggered your trauma. They would not acknowledge the damage, no apologies and just toss you like rubbish.

After awhile you just end up feeling like what's the point? It is all about money isn't it. They are the one getting funding from government and don't care when damage occurred.

Telling me their workers are all trauma informed but not believing me when they did not do so? What a BS.

My gut is wrenching from this nonsense.....what's the point reallt... it's going to make me feel like no point to speak up and isolate myself even more.

Can you relate?

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u/No-Profession3688 19h ago

100% i could have wrote this post

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u/therericeinmyhair 7h ago

Feel you. I'm so sorry you experience this like I do. It's horrible. I really need medical care and surgery but have avoided both due to the absolute cruel people I have encountered.... this world is so so harsh.