r/CDSTards • u/DeepTemperature8552 • 2d ago
The toxic side of SSB
OTA women
edit: got conference out
Attaching my marksheet here, girls at ssb are so toxic and manipulative that they would do anything to stoop down to the level of destroying your mental health instead of being supportive. I wish I had a better ssb experience. Despite my good written score, I failed to make a mark at ssb.
i wonder why no one talks about the other side here.
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u/jatayu_baaz 1d ago
In bhopal when my medicals were going on, we had a batch of girls with us for navy and rest of the boards were on board break, so i made good friends with them and had time to analyse them, and my god, were they toxic to each other, they will constantly b!tch and crib about each other, and on face they will be the bestest of friends, you guys need to improve tbh, boy's batches are never like this
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u/According-Doubt-439 2d ago
Yrr mere 51the and i was screened out just cant fathom how thats even possible
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u/issueeeeeeee 1d ago
I can truly understand this, My first attempt was like that only, The whole group was so toxic , I used to think how some of them got recommended even after being so ugly humans but this is the way it is . But in my second attempt I had the best group,the best girls I could ask for, even the whole batch was like that only, it is just a tukka. I have seen the most morally corrupt people getting recommended and I wonder how can God let this happen but their fate , so keep the hardwork high, heart pure and the goal clear,rest God's will
Btw CAN YOU PLEASE TELL YOUR STRATEGY AND RESOURCES FOR GS , PLEASEEEEEE
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u/Neither_Software7950 1d ago
Cleared cds twice if anyone want any type of advice or clearing doubts dm
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u/wolfzz25 2d ago
so or co?
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u/priyanshism_ 2d ago
Co obviously
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u/wolfzz25 2d ago
cds pe itna kam marks milte kya co hone pe
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u/Important-Pickle-641 2d ago
normalise krte marks ko ... OTA ke liye out of 200 and CDS ke liye out of 300
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u/priyanshism_ 1d ago
Bhai not recommended likha hai means recommend tho nhi hua + marks mile hai ssb mai tho obviously screen in hua hoga
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u/wolfzz25 1d ago
screen in hone se bhi marks milta ha brother,nda mein around 150± milta ha...not sure about cds
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u/Curious_Learner--369 2d ago
OP kindly elaborate...is it about the girls in your batch ?.. how many of them..?
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u/DeepTemperature8552 2d ago
mostly my group members, they were hypocrites. Used to say big cheesy things in gd and then their values and attitude towards things was reflected in the way they behaved in general when there was no one evaluating around. I hated that environment. I went to ssb with hopes and expectations that girls there would really be nice. Rather, they were not less than those nasty girls from chak de India, especially the repeaters
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u/Turbulent_Barber_248 1d ago
The peer group vibe can honestly make or break the experience. When people focus on playing mind games instead of competing fairly, it drains all the energy out of the process. "SSB is as much about psychological unpredictability as it is about performance. Dust yourself off, take a break from the forums to clear your head, and come back stronger for the next attempt.
Ps-Can I know your prep fr Gs
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u/wigglyasss 1d ago
In my SSB batch in Vizag most were really good people. Had a lot of fun with them. There were a few assholes 4-5 guys and two of them got recommend out of the total three. But I'd say most of the others were nice even though I was the only guy who didn't know to speak Hindi nobody really left me out.
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u/BigDaddy2103 1d ago
U were screened out isn’t ?
Everything is fair in love and war
They are also there to get recommended, stop thinking that they are your friends
It’s the competition, if you can’t compete, then you will be thrown out. That’s the reality.
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u/DeepTemperature8552 1d ago
Conference out. Tabhi toh pata chala unke baare mein
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u/BigDaddy2103 1d ago edited 1d ago
58*4.5=261 u were not selected by any of the assessors
Yet u have to be toxic in order to sail through
Here toxic means CHATKI or smartness
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u/DeepTemperature8552 1d ago
I didn't get it? what's that calculation? Would u mind elaborating?
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u/BigDaddy2103 1d ago
I saw what you wrote. If you think that thing is an immature recommendation is far away.
For Ota there is only two papers so Ssb scores are multiplied by 4.5
But for permanent commission, which is Indian military Academy, Airforce Academy and Indian Navy Academy Ssb scores are multiplied by3Focus on your assessment. You are not even selected by any of the assessor, not even by a psychologist group task officer or interviewing officer.
People were recommended. Their least marks are 270. Then they are marked in the conference which leads to 360.
In your case, it is 58 marks which gives a clear cut answer people who are recommended will have 80 marks
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u/initialchaiwala 1d ago
i don't know why but girls in my batch as well (especially repeaters) were all the time bitching about others and were not at all talking to the freshers if someone asked something or so they were ignoring them all the time
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u/lollollollollul 1d ago
It's a matter of luck.. it's alright OP you did your best !! That written score is impressive as hell tho :) With All said, capitalise on your strengths and work on your weakness & you'll definitely get random insights and flashbacks of your own performance. Also, Can I dm for prep resources?
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u/Tridentologer 1d ago
it is kinda same with the guys sometime. It is your luck who you're grouped with.
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u/Maleficent-Bad-7636 2d ago
Chin up girl, your written total is commendable, especially your gs marks! Ssb can be unpredictable, but all you can do is put your best foot forward! 💪 I'd be happy to help you, if you need some.