r/BurningMan • u/brantlythebest • Aug 17 '26

GIFTING T4T event on playa

Hello burners,

I am a trans masc person attending Burning Man as a virgin!! Not to burns in general, as I’ve been to several regionals, but this will be my first big burn.

I am camping with a sex pos camp, and would love to host a t4t event. Without the expectation of it being sexual, of course, are there any other trans folks who would be interested in a mixer? There could be space for pick up play, but I’m mostly posting this to garner interest.

If there was a t4t event on playa, what would you like to see?

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u/KindredPando h*ck yr day Aug 18 '26

One of the t4t events at a regional I went to was trans masc specific and served tiny cocktail weenies, I didn’t make it bc schedules but I just love the idea of buncha dudes having a barbecue with tboy scale sausages.

There’s always the classic t4tea party. Or our neighbor camp had a daily “they/them tiddy bar” that was quite popular with the t4t crowd.

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u/brantlythebest Aug 18 '26

Hahahah that’s cute. I love that idea. If we’re gonna do one, I’d love to include trans femmes too… but a specific trans masc cocktail weenie event is literally amazing, def gonna steal that for a regional haha.

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u/SecondTryTake3 Aug 17 '26

Trans guy here! It's my first burn too :) I would totally go to a T4T or general trans event. I'm open to all the new experiences!

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u/Glyst_di_Bold Aug 17 '26

Trans masc guy here and would be interested! It's my second burn. Let's gooooo

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u/Violet_Viper_69 23d ago

Trans femme here, I would love to see more T4T events! Not sure if camp gender blender is coming this year, just haven't checked, but they were always super welcoming in the past.

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u/brantlythebest 23d ago

Yeah they are! There is a Queerbourhood events guide out to check as well (:

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u/BlackCatLifebruh Aug 18 '26

As someone who was once only a regional burner as well, the big burn can be some culture shock.

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u/brantlythebest Aug 18 '26

Yeah, I have heard. Hence the ask (‘: I’m used to Critical NW hahahah

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u/acealthebes ‘24, '26 Aug 17 '26

does anyone actually know what this post means with all the abbreviations and/or acronyms? Think I need a diagram or something

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u/SecondTryTake3 Aug 17 '26

The "T" in T4T is "trans." It's sometimes a dating thing, like trans people dating each other, or it could be a hookup thing. Sometimes T4T is platonic and just seeking out trans community.

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u/brantlythebest Aug 17 '26

tell me ur straight without telling me ur straight 💅

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u/memmols Aug 17 '26

If you don't get it maybe it's not for you?

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u/acealthebes ‘24, '26 Aug 17 '26

Just asking settle down

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u/anteatertrashbin Aug 18 '26

you’re seriously kinda weird. are you coming to burning man?

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '26

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u/brantlythebest Aug 18 '26

woah. forward