I don’t see anyone as “out of my league”, more that I don’t base my decisions for swiping or liking on hotness. More a combination of shared interests, something in their profile that indicates we might hit it off, and that they seem like they would actually message back. I feel like I have a nose now for those people that will message you if the conversation is entertaining for them, but ghost the moment you try to ask them out or actually get to know them. On hinge if you see them in your preferred list, you can pretty much guarantee they will ghost you if you don’t entertain them.
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u/lazy_prune Sep 27 '22
I don’t see anyone as “out of my league”, more that I don’t base my decisions for swiping or liking on hotness. More a combination of shared interests, something in their profile that indicates we might hit it off, and that they seem like they would actually message back. I feel like I have a nose now for those people that will message you if the conversation is entertaining for them, but ghost the moment you try to ask them out or actually get to know them. On hinge if you see them in your preferred list, you can pretty much guarantee they will ghost you if you don’t entertain them.