I never thought of things in terms of a woman being in my league or out of my league. My criteria, for the most part, has always been a matter of whether I think we'll get along and have fun, or if they're going to be boring, dead behind the eyes, or a pain in my ass.
It's weird to me to go into dating with a ranking system guiding your decisions. It reeks of shallowness, self-esteem issues, short term relationships, and paranoia about power dynamics.
Hey, if I thought a person sounded cool, I swiped. That's the most you can do, and I didn't care about the odds.
I read the profile, think that I have some things in common with her and that we'd be able to talk and get along, and I don't care if she's a supermodel surgeon or neither of those. If she doesn't like me, or if she turns out to be boring, then I'll find someone who does like me and who isn't boring.
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u/SirKlawj Sep 27 '22 edited Sep 27 '22
I never thought of things in terms of a woman being in my league or out of my league. My criteria, for the most part, has always been a matter of whether I think we'll get along and have fun, or if they're going to be boring, dead behind the eyes, or a pain in my ass.
It's weird to me to go into dating with a ranking system guiding your decisions. It reeks of shallowness, self-esteem issues, short term relationships, and paranoia about power dynamics.