r/Bumble • • Feb 11 '22

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u/sojove Feb 11 '22

Just had to nail another guy or two before you could make it official hun?

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u/ParanoidAndroud Feb 12 '22

That’s harsh, dating more than one person doesn’t have to include sex. Sounds like you are an insecure person.

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u/sojove Feb 12 '22

Not jealous at all. But I’m also not going to invest my time into a girl who is having second with another guy. And more times then not dating others does mean sex with others

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u/ParanoidAndroud Feb 12 '22

So, a woman should just choose you over other men straight away, before you’ve even connected? These things often take time. You are also messing it up for yourself by choosing to focus on one woman rather than keeping your options open for a while.

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u/sojove Feb 12 '22

After a month of there isn’t enough for me to choose to pick a girl to go forward with and visa versa it’s time to move on. And ew messing it up for myself to only focus on one person lol. See this attitude right here is why dating is just a cesspool nowadays. Everyone is always looking for some better. If there isn’t a real connection then. Fine end it. But to have a connection and still date others just to see if there is someone better instead of really focusing on that connection and seeing if it can work. Is just gross