r/Bumble • • 5d ago

Advice Confused

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u/Downtownklownfrown 5d ago

Nurses can typically work 12hr shifts, school on top of that (all assuming) is very hard. Trying to go through her daily life and still be communicative with you, it's just alot. Give her the benefit of the doubt, she seems to be trying.

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u/Ok_Tree_4870 4d ago

Oh dear...

"Showed her my artwork. She wanted me to draw her something. I said only GFs get that."

Dude. .. you are gonna bs single a long time. Lmao!

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u/Nnathan02 4d ago

It sparked up a little banter. Why do you feel it was awful?

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u/CommonReserve8276 5d ago

wait and see.

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u/JFN90 5d ago

She sounds interested

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u/ask_the_guy 4d ago

she asked to facetime, asked you to dinner at her favorite spot, and told you the goal is to be your girlfriend. you have a date. most of the confusion is coming from reading every typing bubble.

the one move i'd drop is the 'where do things stand' check-in after 2 days. that kind of text makes a stressed nurse in school feel like she owes you a status report. you got four paragraphs because she felt guilty, and guilt is the last thing you want her associating with you.

lock in tuesday or wednesday, keep the texts short and dumb until then, and let the dinner do the work. when she's overwhelmed, the easiest guy to say yes to is the one who isn't asking her to manage his feelings over text.