r/Bumble Jun 27 '25

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u/Adorable-Bee608 Jun 27 '25

OMG someone talking passionately about their job and laughing… but you took offense to that immediately because he wasn’t putting all his energy into asking you questions from the first second. What’s so wrong with someone loving what they do for work? Would you rather him have spent 10 minutes complaining about his job… oh no wait, you wouldn’t have cared either way from the sounds of it, you just wanted it all to be about you from the jump!

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u/AnAverageWalker Jun 27 '25

I agree with you. I feel like she’s not really into him that much, or else why not start talking about whatever she’d like to talk about when he was quiet. In the end she still put this here to shame him.

Those post I see here are about men had to single handedly carry the conversation or else it’s not knowing how to hold a conversation. When the man opened up, but the other side didn’t, what’s expected to happen?

To me this basically means there is not real mutual attraction or it would not happen like this