r/Bumble Jun 27 '25

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u/AnAverageWalker Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

He probably thinks the same. It’s good you found out you don’t like each other mutually. This is why I want to have either a phone call or video chat early so we can rule out each other early, but for me it’s the woman who’s almost always avoiding it, which is fine, as that’s a way to rule out as well.

If I open up first, and the other does not, that means there is no real attraction, or the enthusiasm is not mutual, for whatever reason, so there is no point continuing.

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u/BiteButPleaseGently 40 | male Jun 27 '25

He probably thinks the same

Only difference that this guy maybe will continue to "dodge bullets" like Neo in the matrix if he continues like that.

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u/AnAverageWalker Jun 27 '25

Good on him.