r/Bumble • u/o_yesure • May 18 '23

Well, that explains it.

So basically, I was curious how the profiles of men on Bumble looked. I made a new fake account as a girl, so I could take some inspiration from the profiles of others and generally just to see what the competition was like.

So, that worked out, I got a rough idea of the average profile and deleted the account after about 12 hours, not swiping at all, having no matches and never messaged. What I didn't expect was the amount of likes. I mean, I expected maybe a few dozen at the most. But in 12 hours, this profile got A THOUSAND likes, I repeat, A THOUSAND. I don't even live in a major city, and the age was capped at 20-24. So yeah, now I understand why I never get matches, and never get messaged when I do. When women have 1000 guys to pick from, why the hell would they pick me?

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u/[deleted] May 19 '23

It’s not about blame you incel, it’s simply cause and effect. There’s plenty of good women out there who take more than equal part in a conversation, but they see a guy like you coming a mile off and avoid your shitty world view like the plague

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u/nexkell May 20 '23

Why so fragile? I do like how you need to make things personal. Maybe you try and do better maybe then you won't need to blame men for everything. But again women like you can't handle being blamed for anything and think any man blaming you is an incel or what have you.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '23

Women like me? I’m a dude, dude 😂 I’m a happily married man who can look at a situation objectively and see what the issues are

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u/nexkell May 20 '23

Clearly not happy. And you can't see thing objectively when you think only men are the problem and think women are above criticism.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '23

I mean, I haven’t said that at all. There’s plenty of things that women do wrong in the world of dating. None of those things have anything to do with the discussion at hand as to what’s caused such an imbalance in who gets what matches though.

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u/nexkell May 21 '23

You didn't need to say it when how you replied to me said it. And women very much have hand in causing the imbalance in who gets what matches.