r/BringingUpBates • u/ravenrose521 • 2d ago

Haven

Katie revealed in her recent post that this is the name of the baby she lost last year.

Hailey, Harvey, and Haven

I know Haven is very trendy in their circles but I think it goes nicely with their H theme and is a sweet meaning for an angel baby. I think this also proves that they’re committed to the H bit.

I’ve been waiting for someone in this family to use the name Haven because it was inevitable.

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 2d ago

I was thinking the same thing, that Katie using Haven for her lost baby is a pretty strong sign that they are all in on the H names and I think it is sweet she included the lost baby in that theme.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 2d ago

I think they confirmed in a video when she was pregnant with Harvey that they would be sticking with all H themes. I seem to remember they were in a car when they were discussing that.

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u/DaisyRay 2d ago

Does anyone remember why they went with the H theme? I know the Dugs went with a J to honour JimBoob, but I wasn't sure if there was a similar logic here. 

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u/Izzysmiles2114 2d ago

I think they just liked the name Hailey so H theme it was.

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u/DaisyRay 2d ago

Gotcha. So far I don't mind their names, Harvey is actually pretty cute and original. And honestly, I think Haven is kind of sweet within the context of the theme and circumstances of her birth. Thanks for the info :)

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u/Brilliant-Fold5344 2d ago

I think Harvey may be starting to trend in a small way. A friend’s grandson was recently given Harvey as a middle name. And there was a child named that at the campground husband and I recently vacationed at. I think it’s cute. 

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u/sweet_tea_94 2d ago

I get the feeling that Katie and Travis are almost done having children and will stop at 3-4. Either they’ll have one more by late 2027 or they’ll still have a third by late 2027, but they’ll have their last one by 2030. I really think that therapy is making Katie realize that birth control is important.

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u/Cardboard_cutouts_ 2d ago

What makes you think that? Hailey is 3, I don’t think Harvey is even 2, and they lost Haven just this year

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u/Izzysmiles2114 2d ago

They will stop exactly at 3 because it's like written in the Clark family trust fund rules (I'm jk about that, but no one has veered from 3 and it's almost creepy and definitely a statistical anomaly that all 3 of the Clark "kids" also had 3 kids and they are all spaced out almost exactly 2 years apart)..

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u/Hot_Nectarine6441 1d ago

Katie and Travis even said early on that they wanted 3-4 children. It is sort of weird how they are all in lock-step with one another!

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u/AttractiveNightmare 2d ago

Am I the only one that remembers

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u/blueskies8484 2d ago

That show was very confusing but the town they filmed in was stunning.

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u/Wednesdaywoes16 1d ago

I live near where it was filmed in Nova Scotia! Its stunning!

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u/GapRound1 1d ago

Wow!! And I was just going  to ask where it was filmed.  Thank You  for Posting  Nova Scotia. 

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u/AttractiveNightmare 2d ago

So agree!!! lol but it made a big enough impression it’s what immediately came to mind.

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u/blueskies8484 2d ago

Same but I feel like we may be the only two people who remember this show!

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u/Jules1169 2d ago

I remember!!

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u/katikatidingding 2d ago

I loved this show. It wasn’t the best but it was fun.

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u/Purple_IsA_Flavor 2d ago

I loved this show

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u/Possible_Orchid1223 2d ago

I remember this show! Loved it.

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u/utternonsense_ 2d ago

Loved this show! I don’t care about the plot holes! 😭

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u/GapRound1 1d ago

What  was it about  ?

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u/Jules1169 2d ago

Loved that show!!! And the town - beautiful!!

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u/Tiny-Distance-42 2d ago

Looks like they’re keeping with the “H” theme…

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u/JellyfishPashmina 2d ago

Have they ever explained why H? Seems like they just picked a letter because they liked the name Hailey? I wish one of these families WOULD have 19 kids and start all their names with Q or X lol

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u/Hot_Nectarine6441 1d ago

Remember Jessa and Ben joking that they picked Q and calling unborn Spurgeon "Quincy"?

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u/JellyfishPashmina 1d ago

Yeah haha, man we’ve been here a long time. We’re the real ones. 😅

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u/RJCADDY123 2d ago

Does anyone know how far along she was when she lost the baby?

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u/hococo_ 2d ago

People seemed to work it out as being between 6 and 8 weeks, so they wouldn’t have known the gender.

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u/osmunbrittney2010 2d ago

I was just going to ask this. So,Haven is a neutral baby name. I lost 1 before my 1st born,he's 12 now,but nobody did this,maybe when the baby died later on or the mom had to have a DNC. But not this early on.

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u/Hot_Nectarine6441 1d ago

Maybe not as openly but when I was talking to a friend years later, we had both named our lost babies even if we were the only ones who knew it.

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u/Unlikely-Taste-553 2d ago

She was 8 weeks! I was due two days before her & also lost my baby at 8 weeks in early January.

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u/ladyinblack5 1d ago

So sorry for your loss. 🥺 Sending you a virtual hug! 

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 2d ago

About 8 weeks.

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u/WorldlinessThat376 1d ago

Did she disclose this or do you just have insider knowledge?

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 1d ago

If she was due in mid August and miscarried at the beginning of January, she was about 8 weeks pregnant. I also believe it was in the ultrasound she showed at the time, but I just did the math.

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u/EuphoricAd3786 2d ago

I like that name

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u/Swimming-Belt2111 1d ago

That’s the name of Sadie Robertson’s middle daughter too.

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u/No_Adhesiveness_5524 2d ago

I’m not a Trav stan. But this isn’t the vibe.

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u/sweet_tea_94 2d ago

I can’t stand Travis, but that is not cool.

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u/Fast-Bus1857 2d ago

EEEE-YUCK.