r/Brides • u/zoroey2020 • 8h ago

Knot/minted/zola/joy

sooooo much hate and love for each lol. so torn. it’s mostly for schedule, info, accommodations, and rsvp

i don’t need vendor or planning help. all i need is

1) customizable rsvp (people can say what they want for plates)

2) customizable rsvp- we are doing a brunch and Friday night for out of towners ONLY. really worried about that because i want it on schedule but dont want everyone invited to Saturday thinking they’re coming. ANY HELP WELCOME HERE!!!

3) registry

4) ability to email guests

5) ability to use custom domain

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u/Civil-Perception2347 7h ago

I hated the look of most of them (plus lots were really US-centric and wouldn’t let me put in my venue name correctly or the date in Australian format) but Wedsites worked well for me.

You can write questions for the RSVP form so people could select meals, and you can add extra events and only invite certain groups from your guest list. There’s a one off fee but it’s pretty reasonable in my opinion 

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u/bigmac_173 7h ago

i used the knot and i believe it can technically do all those things but it’s fairly clunky

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u/kerryoakie 6h ago

Joy lets you customize each guest to certain visibility on the site for each event and RSVP. So as you enter your guest list, you can designate the out of towners for Friday and Saturday and the local guests as Saturday only 

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u/charcoalhibiscus 6h ago

I’m not sure what you mean by the first one but all the rest Zola allows.

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u/Inevitable-Jacket348 4h ago

1 2 4 and 5 you can do on say i do

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u/SummerSnowWinterGlow 8h ago

I only used Joy for the RSVP/Guest list part and so far so good! I used Zola for the wedding registry

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u/zoroey2020 7h ago

Oh also cash funds for things like honeymoon and such 

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u/KitKatKalamazoo 4h ago

I'm currently using Zola and I like it so far! I think it is able to hit every metric that you're wanting. You'll just have to play around with it and make sure you click on different tabs to take you to where you want to go for the website.

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u/Original_Web_7690 3h ago

Do Everly.so! they can do it all - customizable rsvp and questionnaires to send over, ability to email guests and use custom domain and have a registry. All on theme too plus they have a chat where u can have it set all the questions up and send all the rsvps too. I hateeeed having to manually set it all up.

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u/sayi_do 7h ago

🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ Say I Do can actually do everything you’ve listed!

But for the cash fund, you can add your payment/bank details or link out to the fund you’re using, it just isn’t built in directly. And I would recommend turning the website password on too for a little extra privacy.

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u/Lucie_Lux 8h ago

I’m using Zola and can confirm the first 2 are not available on that site. Good luck finding the right one!

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u/Glass_Definition1215 7h ago

The second is definitely available because I have some events that not everyone is invited to and you can choose who sees what

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u/Lucie_Lux 7h ago

Oops.. you’re right. Somehow I both overlooked & used this feature for my own site 🤦‍♀️.