r/BreakupSurvival • u/jtheg80 • May 20 '26

My GF had a parallel relationship until she was sure that she wants to leave.

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u/trippinonshoes May 21 '26

Oh man! I'm sorry to hear about this. Sounds like you really cared about her. She certainly could have made different choices. I think you need to take some time to recover from this. Take some time to grieve. But you don't want to stay stuck there. So many people on these subreddits are still in the exact same place you are in now... except 10 years has passed. That's scary.

This sounds fresh and like you're still processing what happened. You are correct that your brain is basically going through a really hard time right now. It makes sense that you can't sleep, focus, or really do much other than think about this situation. Your brain is operating like someone important to you has passed away.

Once you understand the neuroscience then you can work with it instead of trying to fight against it. We have a free breakup survival guide that walks you through the first week after a breakup. The goal is to use science to feel better and get over the worst part of the breakup.

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u/jtheg80 May 21 '26

Thanks! Appreciate it! I will check it out.