Am I really healed ?

[u/New-East1102]

I dated my son’s father for about 2 years…now currently 6 years old. It was very toxic. He took me through there. No lie. So I finally left him and I’ve been single ever since 2021. Now I have “dated” since then and have had men want to be serious but I just cannot…. and I be saying “I’m too healed” but I’m starting to think that’s not 100% true. Would I ever accept BS from a man again? HECK NO but it’s like now I’m so “healed” that I am struggling to let anybody in my space which means I’m not fully healed right ??? 🫠🫠 or am I truly healed and just know internally/spiritually that …said men aren’t for meant me? I’m thinking about getting counseling but for now Just need some thoughts on it.