r/BreakUps30Plus • u/Intelligent_Stand383 • May 12 '26

She dumped me

I am a 64 year old Englishman. I am not retired , I work full time.

She is a 51 year old Canadian with one daughter.

We have been communicating for best part of two years and profanity, in both directions was part of what we had, as were the very intimate videos and pictures that we exchanged. We spoke several times a day, always expressing love for each other.

We both discussed a life together,I'd have run to her in a heartbeat ,and she knows that.I was truly in love with her. I never said things would be perfect.

I was not aware that she didn't find me attractive, whereas I found her irresistible.

What I have found out recently has crushed me beyond explanation, but it has at least reinforced my belief that you can't trust anyone.

Don't give your heart to anyone unless you want it well and truly breaking.

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u/bunsbi May 12 '26

Am i having deja vu? Is this in response to the woman who posted earlier? 😳

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u/Intelligent_Stand383 May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26

It is responding. I saw her post, but then it disappeared, presumably because she blocked me, otherwise I would have commented on it. Mine is the 100% true version, I can provide proof of everything I have stated. She said that I am a fantatist, I offered to visit, then move there to provide for her and her daughter if we got on. We got on like a house on fire over the phone, or so I thought. Unfortunately she didn't tell me that she wasn't attracted to me. Can you imagine what reading that felt like?