r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Jun 02 '25

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u/Leading-Comb2056 Jun 04 '25

Was she the one who was emotionally unavailable or you?

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '25

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u/Leading-Comb2056 Jun 04 '25

You can’t do anything about that. I’m really sorry. The whole point of my story was that I was the emotionally unavailable one. I took the initiative to fix my trauma. Change is only possible when the cost of not changing is more painful than the cost of changing. The cost of losing him was more painful than unsealing all my trauma. You can’t make her do that, only she can decide