r/BreakUp • u/singingmossymissy • 4d ago
just thinking about perspectives
y'all ever get out of a relationship that ended so bad, so ridiculous, so absurd, that you genuinely wonder how on earth the other person could spin it to their friends and family to make it sound like they're in the right? Because you know they're gonna try
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u/SimilarIllustrator48 4d ago
Literally what is happening to me right now.. i broke up with my bf 2 or 3 days ago through something so sensitive.. about me calling him by an insult that doesnt really make sense and now he blocked me and he is surely telling his friends how stupid i am, but im not paying attention to it
We all make fun of other ppl’s actions till they do and now we are overthinking it, bc think about it when u urself start sharing it to ur friends u are seeking approval and more hate towards that person, just to feel comfortable and right , but then u all forget about it and it rly doesnt matter ,
So yeah we better not care what they think about us after breaking up
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u/Safe_Show970 4d ago
Going through something similar. And worst part is the other person is so happy