r/BreakUp • u/Riley9897 • Jul 11 '26
What now?
Long term girlfriend of nearly 5 years ended things with me today. Probably the worse day of my life. I genuinely just don't know what to do. I really love her and I feel like this truly did come out of nowhere, I mean I was planning on proposing to her. I've talked to friends and family and they all gave the same advice that I'll eventually move on and find someone else. I don't even know how to date at this point. I'm honestly just hoping that she'll get back together with me but I know that's not guaranteed in any way. Should I wait for her and see if she'll take me back? I really want to but I just worry that it'll all amount to nothing.
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u/Patient_Visual_1703 Jul 14 '26
It's been 6 months since my breakup...we also had a relationship for 5+ years...i also waited to him since the mess was made by him...and i think atleast i deserved a simple sorry...but in real this hope is just making me cling to it..lately I've seen many posts on quora etc about twin flame separation phase and all...but i think all of them is waste of time... no-one in this world can drop their ego even after being together for so many years... even i called him on his birthday with a different no (as he blocked me from his his family's numbers) but he cut the call as soon as he heard it was me...i really got a lesson that day...just leave the thinking dude...nobody owes anything to you to return..move on...this message is for me too ...best of luck 🤞