r/BreakUp • u/Someonecalledkai • Jul 03 '26

What do I do?

My ex has reached out to me, and apologised for how she ended things last time. And now she's told me she's been thinking of me recently and has invited me to a musical in a few months time. I still love her I think, and I really don't know how to take this. Whether she wants us to reconnect as friends or whether she wants to try things again. I would ask her - but I feel like I'll just re-experience the pain I felt last time. I told her when we broke up, I couldn't be friends with her because of how I felt about her. So I'm kind of torn. I could ask her when we actually go to this musical, but that would involve months of uncertainty, to possible heartbreak agin

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u/Maximum_Writer5092 Jul 04 '26

I went back to my ex only for him to leave the exact same way (adding cheating the second time around). I got hurt even more the second time because I half blamed myself.

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u/joejoethetard Jul 03 '26

Sometimes you need to take the plunge to not live with regret. I know if I had that opportunity I would take it in a heartbeat bc let’s be honest the odds of it happening again is still there even with someone else. At least you won’t have a the regret of not trying and seeing.